by Mo Ran
Actually, a woman is fortunate not to be rewarded by a man, but by herself.
Life is your own. If you want to live a happy life, you have to create it by yourself. A woman can't be cruel to herself, so what is waiting for her may be the destruction of reality.
A good life is never innate, it is created by ourselves.
Fortunately, you are not happy, don't rely on others, you must know how to fight for yourself, what you have is the most practical. Therefore, a woman who knows how to be cruel to herself will generally not have a bad life.
Be cruel to oneself and change the status quo
A woman, if she doesn’t understand herself, she has to live in the comfort zone without changing, to improve of.
Human nature is actually lazy, habitually enjoy, like to be in a comfortable environment, but always immersed in this environment, it is easy to lose yourself.
Excessive comfort, in fact, will only destroy one person and make her lose the ability to live. Compared with living on one person, what you create through hard work will be more confident and confident.
When a woman is determined to change herself, maintain self-discipline,You will truly feel happiness when you maintain a healthy state and face life with a good attitude.
In real life, if a person cannot change his life, he will be changed by his life. People who can't be cruel often can't live their lives.
And through cruelty to change oneself, improve oneself ability, make oneself a better woman, not only have self-confidence and confidence, men will also cherish more.
Be cruel to yourself, and the family will be happier
In real life, we often see this situation and think that a family depends on a woman to take care of it. The pillar of the world, a woman must know how to play the role of a good wife, lead by example, and know how to help men share the burden.
Actually, for a woman who gives everything like this, she is often unhappy.
Family is not a person’s business, it requires the efforts and maintenance of both parties. If a woman doesn't know how to be cruel to herself, he can get used to everything, and it is easy for a man to get used to it. In the end, everything is yours.
The consequence of a woman's concession to a man is to get herself into that kind of predicament. It is herself who suffers, and men will not know how to cherish.
There is nothing wrong with running a family, and there is nothing wrong with loving each other, but you must adhere to your own principles and cannot give in to everything. The less temper and principle you are, the more the other party will squeeze you unscrupulously.
anytime,Women have to be cruel, refuse when they should refuse, and love themselves when they should love themselves, so that they can truly keep happiness.
Time is not gentle, you have to be tough on yourself
All said that this society is not friendly, especially for women. In many cases, you have to fight for what you want, happiness and security, you have to give it yourself.
pinning these hopes on men is easy to regret. In this world, no one can rely on it, the mountain will fall, and everyone will run. Only relying on oneself is the most practical.
You should know that there are not many people that this society can really rely on, and you have to rely on yourself for your happiness. If you are not independent and strong, you will suffer in the end.
To give happiness to others is the most insecure. By maintaining independence, you can control your own destiny without having to look at other people's faces.
Some women feel sorry for themselves and surrender to their fate. But some women chose to fight for a while, and finally opened up a new situation in their lives.
Women must understand that this society never favors a certain type of people, and opportunities do not favor the weak, and there is no gender distinction in the face of success. Be cruel to yourself, you can choose more.
Summary:
life,In fact, it is a process of self-investment. What kind of life you want to live, you have to put in what kind of effort.
A woman who treats herself a little bit more easily tends to be happy, because her destiny is in her own hands and she is more confident. I hope that every woman can understand that the happier she can rely on herself.
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