I and him, 16 years of relationship, 15 years of marriage. Now, in the face of failure, we must let go.
We all have stable jobs. We also have cars and houses. Our children are 14 years old, smart and well-behaved.
In the eyes of outsiders, we are a happy family. She is a talented girl and has a worry-free life. I always think so, and I always feel happy. I used to think that he had the same mentality as mine. Until recently, when I discovered the betrayal, I suddenly felt that he was terrible and I never understood him.
Husband's work is very enviable, and he is also very good. My wife was proud of my husband, and I was also very satisfied and gratified.
In the past two years, when my husband mentioned leadership positions, the entertainment suddenly increased. However, we can basically take care of the family. It is not the kind of staying away all day. Our life is still relatively harmonious.
Half a year ago, he came back from socializing and drank too much. He turned on the computer and got busy with work, but he was so busy lying next to the computer and fell asleep. I went to call him to sleep in the bedroom, and found that there was a picture of a woman on the computer, which was sent to him by a woman. I opened it and looked at it again, and found that they often chat.
I often make appointments for dinner, and sometimes deliberately go on business trips together. I also know that woman, a colleague from her husband's unit, a 30-year-old single woman. Someone reminded me to pay attention to the relationship between my husband and her. I didn't believe it too much. I thought it was someone else who was picking up the matter, but only after I found out that they were chatting, I decided that my husband had betrayed.
After I took the screenshot, I questioned my husband the next day. He knew that I had evidence, so he admitted that he had gotten closer to that woman. He never admitted that it was a betrayal, it was just a good relationship.
I am angry, I said your attitude, then we divorce. He saw that I was really moving, and he was afraid of divorce, so he finally told the truth. It turned out that they had already betrayed my marriage.
I have made trouble, cried, and resolutely. But in the end, he didn't want to get a divorce, so I beg for forgiveness. I think he is afraid that 's is not losing me,It is to lose everything he just owned. In any case, I didn't give up, I still loved him, so I forgave him.
For a period of time, he became very well-behaved and tried to minimize entertainment. He always went home early. Occasionally socializing, but also no longer playful. When I get home, I can take the initiative to do housework and talk to me with heart-warming words.
But, I am too simple. I thought he said that the return is complete. As a result, it just becomes more hidden. They no longer chat online. Occasionally, they only contact each other via their mobile phones. I delete them after chatting, and I can't find any traces. Sometimes, he would be in a daze, hot and cold to me, he is no longer the same as before...
I feel that when others come back, but the heart does not return! I am tired sometimes, such days are not what I want. However, it is difficult to give up, and it is tiring not to give up. What should I do?
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Sometimes, feelings are like this. Once a crack appears and you want to repair it, you exhausted all your energy and found that no amount of effort can be restored. Perhaps this is the answer to the phrase "It is difficult to reunite with a broken mirror." Therefore, many people do not expect to go back to the past once there is a problem in their relationship. Since then, being able to live in peace and peace is a kind of commendation...
But there are people who make mistakes and insist not to look back, or even if they reluctantly look back, they are extremely reluctant in their hearts. In other words, people come back, but their hearts cannot come back, and they always try to challenge the other party's bottom line with luck. In fact, in such a state, such a person, it is better not to not. If the heart does not come back, people are actually just a cold existence without temperature and love. Such a marriage is difficult to be happy!
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