As the saying goes, "raise children to prevent old age". Before being old, he was already driven crazy by the matter of "son". My mother-in-law dislikes me, my marriage is in a hurry, and I don't have a job. How will I live in the future?
Chen Yuying and Guo Jie have been dating for eight years. Because their family disliked his family's poverty, they ended their relationship under pressure from the family. Later, through the introduction of his family, he married Zhang Jun, a fellow who owns a house and a car in the city.
Yuying grew up in the rural areas of Jiangxi Province. The rural people have a lot of face-to-face comparisons. Her mother is even more snobby and prefers her younger sister who is sweet and kind. The relationship between Yuying and her mother has always been tense. If it wasn't for the opportunity to go to college, there would be such a rare and relaxing time, and it would be even more tense now.
Yuying stayed in the city to work after graduation. She has a good appearance and works as a general assistant in an Internet company, and her work is also smooth. Since she became pregnant shortly after marrying Zhang Jun, she had to quit her job and become a full-time housewife at home.
Soon after she became pregnant, Zhang Jun was appreciated by the boss and was promoted from director to regional general manager. Good things are paired together. Now I have a house, a car, a baby, my husband is promoted and has a high salary, the boss loves Yuying again, and her mother-in-law knows that Yuying is pregnant and came to take care of her from her hometown overnight. Become the envy of many people.
The good times didn't last long. After the hospital inspection was known to my mother-in-law, everything changed.
When my mother-in-law learned that she was pregnant with a girl, her attitude changed drastically.
After that, my mother-in-law and Zhang Jun's aunt made a remote phone call every day to remotely control Zhang Jun. They said a lot of things out of nothing, and spread them all over the village to put pressure on Zhang Jun. Zhang Jun is a person with good face, and he also wants a boy in his heart.
is like this, and unknowingly Dabao was born. Yuying, who was resting on the hospital bed, hadn't recovered yet. Her mother-in-law appeared beside her without saying hello, and greeted her warmly.
Sure enough, Yuying, who was confinement at home, has not yet given birth. The mother-in-law began to encourage Zhang Jun to do Yuying's work together, meaning that she wanted Yuying to conceive a second child. At that time, the second child was released, and there was no problem with the pregnancy, but seeing her mother-in-law's patriarchal expression, Yuying was reluctant. After
, Zhang Jun offered all kinds of hospitality and coaxing. Dabao is also three years old. Seeing that Zhang Jun has been coaxing her for so long, Yuying relented and agreed to have a second child, but she made a contract with Zhang Jun and only had one more child, no matter whether it was a male or a female. Zhang Jun immediately agreed to Yuying's request, and so did her mother-in-law.
Later, she became pregnant with the second baby, and her mother-in-law came to take care of her from her hometown excitedly. The relationship between Yuying and her mother-in-law has eased a little. Perhaps this time the second treasure is born, this matter can come to an end.
Soon, Erbao was born, a girl again. The first moment my mother-in-law learned about it, she pulled her face down, slammed the door angrily and went back to her hometown.
Yuying is already cold-hearted about her mother-in-law's attitude, so she can go back and live her own life. After
, the mother-in-law began to call Zhang Jun remotely again, which meant that she wanted Yuying to have a third child. Zhang Jun is also a mother's treasure, or he also wants a boy, since he broke the contract and obeyed his mother to talk to Yuying about the third child. Yuying got angry and scolded Zhang Jun.
Later, my mother-in-law saw that Zhang Jun was unable to persuade her. She personally called Yuying, meaning "I don't want to have a third child, I have to have a man.My son is in such a good condition and has good ability. You don't have to work every day, so what's so difficult about having a baby. If you don't give birth, I will let my son divorce you and find another life" .
After hanging up the phone, Yuying was even more annoyed. She took out her marriage certificate with Zhang Jun and tore it up. I said, but I don’t want to get divorced. After all, I have two daughters. Besides, I’m divorced. , let Yuying really realize that she must be self-improving.
One night, her husband's cell phone rang, a girl's phone, her husband was asleep, she answered the call, and the other party hung up after a hello. Yuying saw the phone number so familiar, Seeing that there were many unread messages on WeChat, Yuying opened it and found that Zhang Jun was having an affair with her secretary.
Yuying recalled that it was no wonder that her husband had been on a business trip for a long time, and it was strange when he came back. , grabbed his husband, and they were quarreling again, mixed with various things...
After that quarrel, Yuying started to do some part-time jobs by herself, and she had to be financially independent. After being recommended by someone, she started to write in the media. At first, she did not She knows how to write and doesn't have much reading. But she has perseverance, and she insists on writing every day, even if no one reads it.
Huangtian pays off, she found the trick, and the more she writes, the smoother she writes. Four months later, her number of fans has broken through several 10,000 fans, the monthly income can be more than 30,000. is not working for the first time, and can support herself through her own abilities, without relying on her husband. She is very happy to see herself now.
Typing on a laptop in the sun close-up portrait of neat woman's hands.Young freelance women are starting to work at the kitchen table
Inspired, she persists, she doesn't know when their marriages will have "sons" and they will fall apart, who knows?
Yuying's story tells us:
, women must be financially independent at all times, and that is a sense of security that others cannot take away.
2. In a family where "boys are more important than girls", there will be no stopping if there is no boy. Don't believe any promises.
3 A woman is not a machine for giving birth to a baby. It is useless to be born without teaching. It is better to cultivate one well.
4. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, having a husband who can't handle it or sit back and watch is a disaster on earth.
5, Bao Mama will definitely do it, it will never be too late, boldly step out of your comfort zone, insist on doing what you want to do, and you will definitely succeed.
