Oral: Really
Arrangement: Linglong
I have lived in a harmonious and warm family since I was a child. My parents dote on me and my brother very much. Princess.
Growing up in such a family environment, I have always felt that those who prefer sons over daughters are written in books and acted in dramas. How could there be such parents in reality?
But my mother-in-law made me refresh my three views.
My husband and I are high school classmates and have not been in touch for many years. It was not until a blind date that we recognized each other. At that time, we felt that there was a lot of fate, so we began to fall in love.
When I was in love, the prospective in-laws treated me very well. Every time I went to their house, I was treated like a VIP. My husband also had a sister who was five years older than him. Keep in touch with them.
At that time, I thought, the eldest sister is really heartless, and when she has her husband's family, she forgets her parents' family. It was only later that I learned that her in-laws had neglected her since she was a child and attached great importance to her husband, which made her uneasy, and she never wanted to go home after getting married.
And every time I talk about the eldest sister, the prospective mother-in-law has the expression of raising a white-eyed wolf, saying that she never thinks about her parents' family. took her.
At the time, I also stood by my mother-in-law. It was not until I gave birth to a daughter that I realized how outrageous my mother-in-law's preference for sons was.
I became pregnant half a year after I got married. My in-laws were so happy that they sent this and that, stewed tonic and fruit, all day long, circling around my belly, one big grandson at a time.
I didn't think too much about it. In my heart, my son and daughter are the same, and they are my treasures.
On the day of childbirth, my mother and my mother-in-law were anxiously waiting outside the delivery room. I gave birth to a lovely daughter by caesarean section, but when I woke up, I found that only my mother-in-law was holding the baby in front of the bed, and my father-in-law even No shadow was seen.
I thought they went back to cook, but I didn't see them in the evening. I asked my husband, and he fumbled and said that there was something at home, and I was surprised. Is there anything more important at home than a granddaughter?
My mother couldn't help it: Your in-laws, when they saw that they gave birth to a granddaughter, were greatly disappointed, and both of them left without looking back!
turned out to be like this! This is going too far too, what happened to the granddaughter? Isn't the granddaughter the same as my husband's own flesh and blood?
I was so angry that I cried aloud. My husband quickly comforted me and said that they would be fine after they figured it out in two days. After all, the granddaughter is also the blood of their family. They just miss their grandson too much.
However, until I was discharged from the hospital, neither of my in-laws appeared.
During the whole month, my parents were always busy, buying and cooking food, taking care of children, and watching me from time to time to relieve my heart.
I also figured it out later, no matter what the attitude of my in-laws is, my daughter is my baby, and it is their business that they don't like it. My daughter is our own pain.
On the day of confinement, my mother-in-law came, with a helpless expression of accepting the facts.
came to my room, she didn't even look at my daughter, she said she would come to help take care of the child in the future, but she wanted to make a three-chapter contract with me:
First, from the moment my daughter landed, all expenses were paid for Keeping accounts, when we get married in the future, we will ask the man to come back in the form of a dowry.
Second, after I rested for a while, I immediately conceived a second child. If the second child was also a daughter, I would go for the third child and have to have a boy.
Third, in the past few years, I will focus on having children and must resign.
Hehe, I am not angry but laughing, I really don’t know where she has such a big face to say such words, I sneered back to her:
First, I raise my own daughter, it has nothing to do with others, all expenses are I am willing, she will always be my daughter even if she becomes the daughter-in-law of another family.
Second, my husband and I decide whether I will have a second child or not. No one else has the right to dictate. I have no plans to have a second child yet. My daughter is my heart, and I don’t necessarily have to have a son. .
Third, want me to resign? Your son's income is only 10,000 yuan a month. It's hard for a husband and wife to raise a child, not to mention that he raises two or even three children by himself? Your pension is only 6,000 a month, even if it is fully subsidized to us, it is of little use.
Fourth, if you want a boy, is there a family business with several hundred million or a throne to inherit?
My mother-in-law blushed for a while at my words, and yelled at me in a fit of rage: If you don't want to have a son, don't expect me to help you with the child.
I smiled lightly: No, please. When you are old in the future, don't count on me and my children.
My mother-in-law was trembling with anger and scolded me for not knowing what to do. My husband came in and persuaded her to go out. I heard a loud slam on the door.
I know that I will not be able to rely on my in-laws to take care of children in the future, but I have the strong backing of my parents' family and a husband who loves me. I am confident to live a good life for myself.
Instead of relying on them, it is better to strengthen yourself.
