If a woman wants to take the initiative in marriage or relationship, she has the final say, and it is difficult for men or her in-laws to respect you, but as long as you understand these truths of human nature, it will be easy for you to get , and the following mysteries will give you rebirth.
1: Because women are too emotional, they are easily trapped by love.
Even because of a man's attitude towards him and a look in his eyes, he can't eat or sleep, trying to figure out what he means to himself all day long? Is there something wrong with yourself? Which sentence doesn't suit him? Or are you tired of seeing each other for a long time? Lost the freshness of yourself? Not feeling bored anymore, or someone out there?
What if someone really does, how can they win back his heart?
Often women will be so stupid, so many imaginations and concerns arise in their hearts for a man's attitude towards them.
and tortured to the point of despair, mental problems arise, , insomnia, , depression, worrying about these things all day long, time is wasted, and nothing can be done, don’t you completely finish yourself? This is the sadness of ignorance of human nature!
In fact, women don't have to play so much in their hearts, and they don't have to put these unimportant things first.
If you want to take the initiative in your emotions, you must allow yourself an extraordinary talent and independent economic ability, and you must evolve these extraordinary talents into a way to achieve your independent economic ability.
Because men don't care about you why? It's not because you have nothing, are you cheap? No matter how beautiful and good-looking you are, as long as you are not capable, men will still treat you as vase in their hearts.
As long as the vase is old, tired of looking at it, outdated, and it doesn't bring out the elegance of the house, it will be put aside or disposed of as waste.
This is the psychology of a man who treats a woman who has nothing and only depends on him to support her. Isn't
very disturbing? Is it cruel? But this is the truth!
Because human nature is selfish, although this man will not divorce you, because divorce is not good for him, is it not good to have a free nanny at home?
You only need to pay some living expenses to have a full-time free housekeeper and nanny, which is a huge profit no matter what.
Then the parents and children at home are taken care of, and I have a lot of time outside to struggle and grow up. Isn't the reason why I have a free babysitter at home to support me?
Although men are the biggest beneficiaries in marriage, the selfishness of human nature determines that others will not appreciate the contributions of those who seem to be worthless, even if this person makes intangible and valuable contributions to him, he will also don't really appreciate it.
This is that he doesn't care about those women who pay blindly at home and do not have their own personal talents and financial independence.
Do you feel very distressed when you see it? But if you have the courage to keep watching, you are guaranteed to grow quickly, or the next person to take the initiative in the emotions will be you! And your life will be turned upside down because of the truth I say!
So if a woman wants to be reborn, she must come out of her family and not live for the sake of her children and family.
Only if you live well and live your life well, will your children and family members respect and recognize you.You also don't need to do all the housework. Raising children is not a woman's main responsibility, but a joint responsibility of husband and wife.
If the other party has no time to manage, it can be handled reasonably, or both parties take turns to manage, don't delay your personal growth because of children.
Because in the relationship between husband and wife, one party is struggling to grow and the other is standing still, so the one who grows faster may dislike the one who is standing still.
When there is a problem with the relationship between husband and wife, there is a great possibility that your child will follow the capable party! If there is a divorce due to disgust, then you have nothing, no knowledge, no experience, and no financial ability to survive. Can this child follow you? Will you admire you? Can you live with dignity? These are very real issues.
Women don't listen to the lies that say "the family must have one sacrifice". The truth behind this sentence will make a woman stumble for a lifetime. A truly good relationship between husband and wife should be one that complements each other. Everyone grows up together, and will not sacrifice your interests for his own personal interests. For each other, in this way, the relationship between husband and wife can be handled harmoniously, and in the long run, women can also take the initiative in marriage and be reborn.
No matter how big someone else’s roof is, it’s not as good as having an umbrella in your own hand. This sentence is also applicable in the relationship between husband and wife. You have nothing, let alone the relationship between husband and wife. No one cares about you, even your own children. I also despise you.
The reason your husband looks down on you is because you don't know anything, you are nothing, and you will only pass on the family for his family. After that, he will only pay for the family expenses, and the child support will be nothing else. He doesn't care about cherishing. Emotions don't last long!
The mother-in-law looks down on you because you have to rely on his son to support you.If you have the financial ability and the ability to leave at any time is not bad, would they dare to neglect you like this? Because it will cost more to find another one, and it is not necessarily better than you, and it will leave a lot of trouble. These things have been calculated by human nature, do you know the truth? If a woman is financially independent, even if she earns 2,000 to 3,000 yuan a month,
Then men and mother-in-law will never dare to look down on you, and they will respect you very much. Human nature is like this, respect the strong, obey the strong, and ignore the weak.
As long as a woman is financially independent, it will bring a series of benefits. First of all, your personal knowledge, experience, emotional intelligence, pattern, and wisdom are relatively high. With all this, you will have the confidence to live a wonderful life without anyone, so that you will not become a puppet in your relationship, marriage and love, but take the initiative.
If it really has this effect, it is inevitable that the husband and everyone will treat you well. This is one way for women to be reborn.
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