My parents run a hotel and the business has been good. Later, when my parents got older and older, they asked me to quit my original bank job and run the hotel together with them...
My father's friend Uncle Wang is a warm-hearted person. My dad has a very good relationship. He used to come to my house for drinks, and he often came to the hotel to help. Later, through the introduction of Uncle Wang, I got to know my current wife. My wife's family is also in business, and the conditions are better than mine. When I first came into contact with me, my mother didn’t agree very much, because my wife’s university was not very good, and I was a graduate student of 985 college. My mother was afraid of affecting the genes of the next generation. Later, I learned that my wife’s family is also in business, and she is not interested in business management. When the hotel was still very helpful, my mother gave in.
My wife's family is very satisfied with me. Every time I go to the house, her mother cooks a table of dishes, and her father will bring out a collection of good wine. When we got married, my wife bought a 200-square-meter wedding room , and they were all renovated. They also married a 500,000-dollar car. The wedding was held in our own hotel, so our family didn't spend much money.
After graduating from college, my wife helped out in her own shop. After she got married, she started as a full-time wife . Since I was too busy with work, I spent most of my time in the hotel, so my mother simply handed over the business to me after my wife was pregnant. I took care of it, and she moved directly into our to take care of my wife.
My mother has a rather sloppy personality. She pulls it down and doesn't take it to heart. My wife is also an easy-going and gentle person. In short, they get along very harmoniously. They have a lot of common language and topics, and they never argue. Sometimes I also want to marry such a knowledgeable, understanding and understanding wife. I feel that I am lucky...
After the child was born, my mother completely ignored the hotel and devoted herself to taking care of the child. [laughs], with my mother's help, my wife is much more relaxed. Every day I have time to go out for shopping , do beauty treatments...
When my child was over two years old, suddenly one day my wife told me that she wanted to take care of the child Going to Sanya cat winter , I am afraid that the climate in the northeast will not adapt to the cold , besides, the hotel is so busy now, if the child has a cold and goes to the hospital , you will be distracted to take care of us, we might as well find a good climate You and mom can rest assured if you live in a place for a while.I think about it too, the temperature in Northeast winter is really too low, and the children are not in good health since childhood. If they are sick and hospitalized, I can’t take care of them. Besides, my mother is too old and can’t stand the toss. After thinking about it, I say you and the child Do you live in folk custom over there or rent a house ? My wife said that she has a house over there. I was surprised to hear it. I had never heard of her before. My wife was surprised when she saw me, so she explained that when she was in college in Sanya, her parents were worried about eating there alone. It was not easy to live in, so I bought her a house there and hired a nanny to take care of her. After graduating from college, I returned to the Northeast. The house has not had time to deal with, so it happened to be used this time... I suddenly realized that it was This is the case, I said, then you can take our mother with you, she can help you take care of the children, my wife said no, my mother is too old, and it is uncomfortable to fly for a long time, and she is too tired during this time, It's just that she can have a good rest by the absence of the child... I said, wife, you are too thoughtful!
My wife set out to leave two weeks later. Every day I come back from shopping, I will buy a lot of children's clothes. Some clothes are still large sizes. , I said that there is no need to buy such a big one. It feels like a 5- or 6-year-old child can wear it. My wife said that her third aunt's daughter is also in Sanya. This time I went to bring some gifts to their children. I said That's as it should be!
My mother is holding her child every day these days, she is very reluctant, and she always whispers to me, saying that my wife has a problem, I will go to Sanya without her, I laughed, and told my mother that if they don’t bring you, you will speak ill of others , My mother pouted and said you don't believe it, just wait and see, I'll be happy after hearing it.
My parents run a hotel and the business has been good. Later, when my parents got older and older, they asked me to quit my original bank job and run the hotel together with them...
My father's friend Uncle Wang is a warm-hearted person. My dad has a very good relationship. He used to come to my house for drinks, and he often came to the hotel to help. Later, through the introduction of Uncle Wang, I met my current wife. My wife's family is also a businessman, and the conditions are better than mine. When I first came into contact with me, my mother didn’t agree very much, because my wife’s university was not very good, and I was a graduate student of 985 college. My mother was afraid of affecting the genes of the next generation. Later, I learned that my wife’s family is also in business, and she is not interested in business management. When the hotel was still very helpful, my mother gave in.
My wife's family is very satisfied with me. Every time I go to the house, her mother cooks a table of dishes, and her father will bring out a collection of good wine. When we got married, my wife bought a 200-square-meter wedding room , and they were all renovated. They also married a 500,000-dollar car. The wedding was held in our own hotel, so our family didn't spend much money.
After graduating from college, my wife helped out in her own shop. After she got married, she started as a full-time wife . Since I was too busy with work, I spent most of my time in the hotel, so my mother simply handed over the business to me after my wife was pregnant. I took care of it, and she moved directly into our to take care of my wife.
My mother has a rather sloppy personality. She pulls it down and doesn't take it to heart. My wife is also an easy-going and gentle person. In short, they get along very harmoniously. They have a lot of common language and topics, and they never argue. Sometimes I also want to marry such a knowledgeable, understanding and understanding wife. I feel that I am lucky...
After the child was born, my mother completely ignored the hotel and devoted herself to taking care of the child. [laughs], with my mom's help,My wife is much more relaxed. Every day I have time to go out for shopping , do beauty treatments...
When my child was over two years old, suddenly one day my wife told me that she wanted to take the child to Sanya cat winter , because she was afraid of in the northeast If the child has a cold and goes to the hospital , you have to be distracted to take care of us, we might as well find a place with a good climate to stay for a while, you and your mother can also rest assured. I think about it too, the temperature in Northeast winter is really too low, and the children are not in good health since childhood. If they are sick and hospitalized, I can’t take care of them. Besides, my mother is too old and can’t stand the toss. After thinking about it, I say you and the child Do you live in folk custom over there or rent a house ? My wife said that she has a house over there. I was surprised to hear it. I had never heard of her before. My wife was surprised when she saw me, so she explained that when she was in college in Sanya, her parents were worried about eating there alone. It was not easy to live in, so I bought her a house there and hired a nanny to take care of her. After graduating from college, I returned to the Northeast. The house has not had time to deal with, so it happened to be used this time... I suddenly realized that it was This is the case, I said, then you can take our mother with you, she can help you take care of the children, my wife said no, my mother is too old, and it is uncomfortable to fly for a long time, and she is too tired during this time, It's just that she can have a good rest by the absence of the child... I said, wife, you are too thoughtful!
My wife set out to leave two weeks later. Every day I come back from shopping, I will buy a lot of children's clothes. Some clothes are still large sizes. , I said that there is no need to buy such a big one. It feels like a 5 or 6-year-old child can wear it. My wife said that her third aunt's daughter is also in Sanya, and this time I brought some gifts to their children.I said it should be!
My mother is holding her child every day these days, she is very reluctant, and she always whispers to me, saying that my wife has a problem, I will go to Sanya without her, I laughed, and told my mother that if they don’t bring you, you will speak ill of others , My mother pouted and said you don't believe it, just wait and see, I'll be happy after hearing it. Sure enough, the arrival of an uninvited guest two days later revealed the truth...
My mother was cooking in the kitchen at noon, and my wife and I were playing with the children in the living room , when someone knocked on the door, I was surprised, because now I live in a wedding room. This house is known only to my family and has a key. So I went to open the door. Outside the door was a man leading a little girl about 5 years old. When the man saw me, he shouted: Let xx (My wife's nickname) Come out, I've been looking for you so hard all these years, when you left your child and left, do you know how I got here? Come out soon, or it won't end today...
I'm very surprised, how does he know my wife's nickname, I turned my head to look at my wife, she has stood up and stared at the door blankly, with tears in her eyes, I still haven't I understood what was going on, and signaled my wife to come and talk, but my wife didn't move. At this time, my mother came over, pointed at me and shouted to my wife, "This is my son and daughter-in-law. I don't have the person you are looking for in my family, even if she It's the person you're looking for. It's also the thing before marriage. It has nothing to do with us, and we don't care. You go away. If you are still entangled, I will call the police. What do I understand...
I went back to the hotel that night. My wife called me many times and I didn't answer. Later, my mother told me the whole story: It turns out that this man is my wife's college classmate and her predecessor , and the five-year-old child is their child. After his wife graduated from college, he returned to the Northeast and left the child to his ex.The wife's family gave the man a sum of money and signed an agreement, and he made it clear that he would not be entangled in the future. I didn't expect that some time ago, I didn't know how he contacted his wife and clearly wanted a sum of money. The wife went to Sanya to deal with this matter. ……
When I heard this fact, my mind went blank. I didn’t expect that my wife, who has always been pure, gentle and considerate, would hide such a thing from me for so long. If it wasn’t for this man who took the initiative to come to the door, our whole family would be covered up. in the drum.
My mother advised me to be generous, saying that this is the end of the matter, and it is a matter before marriage, let him pass by in the past, and you have children of your own, so you have to look forward to life, don’t be ignorant because of the previous ignorance And delaying my current beautiful life...
I am also very conflicted now, because I really can't accept this fact. I don't know if I should get a divorce, and since the child is still young, I don't want my child to lack parental care at such a young age.
What should I do now?
My mother advised me to be generous, saying that this is the end of the matter, and it is a matter before marriage, let him pass by in the past, and you have children of your own, so you have to look forward to life, don’t be ignorant because of the previous ignorance And delaying my current beautiful life...
I am also very conflicted now, because I really can't accept this fact. I don't know if I should get a divorce, and since the child is still young, I don't want my child to lack parental care at such a young age.
What should I do now?
