There is a very popular question on Zhihu recently: in a relationship, should you choose bread or marry love?
As soon as this issue came out, it caused a heated discussion among everyone, and many people discussed it below: Some people believe that only with material foundations can we have a better quality of life. Love is not eternal, but material things can definitely make people live better. And some people think that things are not material and not important, that it is enough for him to love me, and it is enough to be nice to me. In order to explore the concept of marriage and love among the majority of unmarried men and women, Youyuan Online conducted relevant research with the help of big data and its own massive platform user information.
Choose love
Friendship online survey shows that 77% of men and 45% of women choose love, and women are lower than men. People who choose love think: if the union of two people is because of love, then the relationship will be better after having children, then such a family has many advantages. Parents love each other is the core factor for the healthy growth of children, and they live in a harmonious family atmosphere since childhood. In the environment, the child's personality is more cheerful and optimistic, the cognition of feelings is positive, and subconsciously imitates the parents' attitude towards love, and when he grows up, he will be serious and responsible for marriage, and bring a perfect marriage to the child.
Choose bread
The survey shows that 23% of men and 55% of women choose bread, with women higher than men. Those who choose bread believe that the economic foundation determines the superstructure, a marriage without material goods will not last long, and good family conditions can meet the material and spiritual needs of children. They will not only enjoy excellent education and eat rich nutrition in the process of growing up. The most comfortable meals, the most comfortable clothes, the luxurious house, and the first-class school, are more advantageous than their peers.
In fact, whether you choose love or bread, there are different disadvantages: if you choose bread, both parents may be busy with work and have no time to accompany their children to grow up. Because children rarely stay with their relatives, the parent-child relationship is relatively tense, despite the economic conditions. Very good, but if parents do not have feelings, they often quarrel and fight coldly, and the children's emotional outlook will also change after a long time. Those who choose love, poor and lowly couples grieve for everything. Because there is no material foundation, many needs of the child are limited, and then they suppress their normal material needs. When the concept of "poor" thinking is frequently instilled, the child tends to become inferior and always think that he is inferior. , children's money values will also change over time.
Friendship Online Emotional Instructor believes that the best state of marriage is the coexistence of love and bread, talking about love while eating bread. Bread is important, but love is also essential. The best love is to help each other to achieve each other, to move forward together and make progress together. In adversity, I have the courage to endure hardships with you, and I have the blessing to enjoy with you when I develop! If you do not leave or abandon me, I will depend on each other in life and death, choose a city to live with one person with a white head, one house for two people, three meals for four seasons!
