Introduction:
The genius of the literary world, Jia Pingwa, said in "Abandoned Capital": women want to be detached from men, like a loach, let him grab it in his hand, and you slip off again; The saliva came out and I couldn't fill my stomach. A man has a good feeling for you, and he is as brave as a fly to pursue.
The meaning of this passage is to say that in the relationship between the sexes, women should not be too active, but should be detached, just right so that men can taste the sweetness and the little happiness of pursuit and pursuit. Provoking a man's heart is itching, he can't stop, he will pursue it more and more bravely.
First, men like to conquer and hunt
Because the nature of men is to conquer and hunt. Men don't like peaches that can be picked as soon as they reach out, but they like to stand on tiptoe, climb up and down, stack up on chairs and stools, and stretch out what they still can't reach.
When a man pursues a woman, the woman begins to be cold, while the man is enthusiastic, and racks his brains every day to please the woman.
In this process, a man's desire to conquer soared, and the more he couldn't get it, the more he wanted it, and the more he showed a strong interest in women.
Once the woman has a reward, the man will follow the victory and launch a more violent attack. Ruo Lang has a concubine intentionally so it comes naturally and begins a love story.
If women don't feel nothing at all, they won't be cold to men who pursue them, and they will definitely change. Men taste the thrill of pursuit and the joy of being close to success, and they are full of sense of accomplishment.
But once a man gets it, he burns with passion with a woman, and sings love songs to climax. When there is a blend of love and desire between men and women. Then within a certain period of time, men will still be enthusiastic, and they will interpret the theme of love with women again and again with great interest.
As women take the initiative and respond more enthusiastically, men become less interested. Because women's feedback and reactions are too enthusiastic, men's desire to conquer will gradually decrease. This is why, after getting it, women feel that men are not as active and enthusiastic as they used to be.
Second, men are natural creatures who don't like stress
And once a woman has a sexual relationship with a man, nine out of ten women will think that she is someone else's person, and will naturally have a certain amount of demand. Or, start to subconsciously bind men or make various demands. For example, such as men asking for gift money or dragging men to help themselves solve problems and so on.
A man is an animal that doesn't like stress. , especially in extramarital affairs, he can burn with you passionately, or risk smuggling with you, but once he feels your control, he will choose to withdraw or flee.
Men like women they can control, or men like everything under their control . Only then can he walk freely among the flowers and plants, come and go freely, and advance and retreat in a moderate manner.
Men don't like things beyond their control, including the pursuit of women.
For example, when Zhuang Zhidie met Tang Waner for the first time, he could see 100% of her own affection and desire, but he did not express it directly and openly to her. It was just a tentative and tentative provocation.
At the moment when Tang Waner closed the window and pretended to miss, she fell into his arms, and he only symbolically stroked her feet.
Her half-hearted expression and the desire in her eyes, Zhuang Zhidie is clear and clear.When chooses the object of extramarital affairs, the first step for a man is to ask for directions, especially a decent, well-known and famous man, he will not rashly attack a woman directly, even if it is just molesting.
At the first test, Zhuang Zhidie knew it, the man had to roughly judge the attitude of this goal before he could express it further.
The second time, directly at Tang Wan'er's house, the two people who had tacitly agreed with each other, such as firewood, quickly got started.
Freshness, excitement, and passion are the hallmarks of extramarital affairs. The two people ask each other for what they need, and they can't wait for the phoenix to achieve brilliance.
3. Tang Waner loves too much
In the extramarital affair with Tang Waner, Zhuang Zhidie is 100% the performance of a veteran. After the first time, he did not seek Tang Wan'er for the second time in a short period of time, but Tang Wan'er was deeply ensnared, and he couldn't hold himself back.
She recalled the two people's thoughts countless times, and looked forward to the next tryst with Zhuang Zhidie. But Zhuang Zhidie never made an appointment, Tang Waner really couldn't wait any longer, and finally made an excuse to go to Zhuang Zhidie's house to find him.
So, , at this point, Zhuang Zhidie had made Tang Wan'er stubborn from the beginning, and he knew that she would definitely come. The captured prey will not escape. For Tang Wan'er, he doesn't have to chase or rack his brains at all. She is a white bird who threw herself into the net, voluntarily rammed under his gun and became his prisoner.
Tang Waner was active and enthusiastic, Zhuang Zhidie would definitely not refuse, how could a man let go of the deliciousness that he took the initiative to bring to his mouth.
Men like Zhuang Zhidie, although they have no appearance, are talented, and women are powerless to men's talents. What's more, Zhuang Zhidie is a cultural celebrity in Xijing City, with a shining halo.For a woman like Tang Waner who likes romantic petty bourgeoisie, this is the most deadly temptation. She even expressed her willingness to dedicate herself to finding inspiration for writers.
Women are always attracted to better men. In particular, Tang Wan'er's first husband was just a vulgar worker, so she eloped with Zhou Min. Compared with Zhuang Zhidie, Zhou Min is one level lower, not a man on one level.
He's thin, bald, and doesn't look very handsome. However, the talent of the writer is really irresistible and charming, attracting one woman after another to take the initiative to embrace her. For example, Liu Yue also voluntarily sent it to Zhuang Zhidie's mouth.
The passionate Tang Waner asked Zhuang Zhidie for his name again and again, and kept urging him to marry her. In fact, this is the ultimate problem for men looking for extramarital affairs, and generally he will not solve it. Sometimes empty promises are the way to go, and procrastination is also the best policy, which is also a trick that men often play.
Liuyue also has her own small abacus and small goals. Zhuang Zhidie gave her to the mayor's disabled son. Among these women, there is only A Can, who loves the purest and most selfless. She only loves Zhuang Zhidie, only for beauty to bloom, not for his money, not for him to do things for her.
Although she also took the initiative, she never put any pressure on him, which made him feel uneasy and guilty.
Conclusion:
loves too much, invests too deeply, and treats men in extramarital affairs with all the enthusiasm and love in life, so women's endings are generally doomed to be tragic. Therefore, even if Tang Waner was not captured by the first man in the end, Zhuang Zhidie would not give her the ending she wanted.#好Books and Adventures Season# #Mochi Culture Reading Club#
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