wen|Ye Lili
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Mr. Hong has been married to his wife for eleven years.
Before marriage, marriage is a free choice for his wife.
After getting married and having children, marriage is a difficult choice for her.
The premise is that the husband is unreliable, or not the ideal type in her heart.
Mr. Hong seems to be very honest. He goes to work every day besides going to work.
He resigned from the company not long ago, and he has been engaged in the profession of a driver before, specifically driving for the company's leaders.
This kind of work seems easy, but it is not.
at least be on call, there is no fixed commute point.
But this kind of work is also relatively flexible, and I can take care of anything at home.
However, Mr Hung doesn't seem to be taking full advantage of this kind of work.
For example, last year, my wife fell on an electric bike and got a big bag on her head.
Because this time it is really serious, I feel dizzy when I stand up and walk, let alone cook and eat by myself.
And they have a child to take care of, although the child goes to school, the pick-up is definitely not possible.
Logically speaking, as a husband, Mr. Hong should take a few days off to take care of his wife when she needs him most.
When he learned that his wife was wrestling, Mr. Hong was also distressed. He spent the first day at home with her.
but he went to work the next day.
He also has his difficulties, because since 2019, the company has not paid him wages.
is unpaid wages. From
until now, almost 80,000 wages have not been given.
Mr. Hong has sued the company.
He was thinking that if he didn't go at this time, it might have a positive impact on his victory.
Due to this pressure, he left his wife alone at home and chose to go to work.
The world of adults is really not easy. If it is not for living, who wants to suffer and suffer?
As Mr. Hong's wife, the two have been married for so many years, so she should understand her husband's behavior.
But the wife got angry in the end, and out of control, she filed for divorce directly.
This scares Mr. Hung.
The career is frustrated, the relationship is not smooth, and the backyard is on fire.
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Because his wife filed for divorce, and this time it seems to be real.
When the child was three or four years old, his wife also proposed it once, but at that time, Mr. Hong swore that he would change and make him what his wife wanted him to be.
It is a pity that after so many years, he is still him.
The monthly salary is 6,000. There is no house or car. The temperament remains the same, and he doesn't care about his children or his wife. Whether
actually has money, and whether the salary is high or not, the wife doesn't seem to always talk about it.
When she was with Mr. Hong, he was also a pauper.
In this epidemic, the husband has almost no income, and the wife can accept it.
If you don't have money, save some money and go out to earn it.
Since you can accept it without money, why do you want a divorce?
Because some people are not only poor, but also poor.
can't stand this anyway.
Take Mr. Hong as an example, he is the kind of person who looks very honest but is actually quite selfish.
For example, a child is taken care of by his wife alone.
Children get injections, vaccinations, pick up and drop off from school, etc., but everything related to the child is taken care of by the wife.
This is not enough. My wife once opened a clothing store, and when she bought goods, she held the child in one hand and the package in the other.
That's it, Mr. Hong not only did not consider his wife, but said that she took the children to show off.
Because my daughter is very beautiful.
Anyone with a little conscience would never say such a thing.
Well, if you don't work hard, then pay for it.
Sorry, no.
Mr. Hong's salary has never been handed over to his wife. All the expenses of
children are borne by the wife.
is for the sake of the children, and the wife has to endure it again and again.
In order to give the children a warm and harmonious family environment, on weekends, my wife occasionally asks the family of three to watch a movie or something.
Logically speaking, this is the wife who is taking the initiative to maintain this relationship. As long as she is not a fool, she will know what to do at this time.
But Mr. Hong hardly ever goes.
doesn't know if it's because he doesn't want to spend money, or if he doesn't care how his wife and kids feel.
Living with such a person is really better than being single.
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Mr. Hong's wife also revealed that the last time he rode an electric bike, he fell so badly that he couldn't get out of bed while lying in bed.
The husband does not ask for leave to accompany her to take care of her, even if he does not pick up his daughter after school.
In the end, it is the wife who asks others to help her pick up the children.
As for the meal, her husband, Mr. Hong, said lightly: Then order takeout. The practice of
really makes people feel so cold.
No money, no room, no one.
After eleven years of marriage, his parents-in-law told Mr. Hong that he could buy a suite in his wife's hometown when his economic conditions improved.
At the beginning, his parents-in-law did not despise him for being poor, but encouraged him to consider buying a house after earning money.
Over the years, the wife's contribution to the family is remarkable, and she has fulfilled her duty as a wife and a mother.
But what about Mr. Hong? What did he do?
When his wife filed for divorce for the first time, he knelt down to her and said in tears that he would change.
His wife filed for divorce again. He had nothing to do with him. He knelt down and asked a colleague to do his wife's ideological work.
When his wife filed for divorce again, and was hurt to the point where she gave up on him completely and never wanted to go back, he asked the peacemaker for help, and then knelt down again.
say that men have gold under their knees.
But for Mr. Hong, kneeling is just a tactic for him to slow down, leaving his wife first.
On the surface, because his wife filed for divorce, he couldn't eat or sleep, and he looked haggard for Yixiao.
Once he learned what he had done, he only deserved two words: Deserving it!
The man who just kneels to communicate and solve things is cowardly and incompetent, selfish and absurd.
swears that it will change, that it will change its face, and that all shortcomings will be corrected.
The more emotional it is, the more hypocritical it is.
This kind of person will not have real change, unless he really pokes his sore spot.
Mr. Hong's marriage with his wife and his wife's situation are actually a true portrayal of the marriage and situation of many ordinary people.
When the paying party is awakening, then marriage is not far away.
