The 27-year-old guy and his girlfriend went to apply for a marriage certificate, but they were told: it’s a brother-sister relationship and it can’t be done.

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Wan Zifei is 27 years old, and his girlfriend Wan Lili is 23 years old.

The two have been in love for many years.

A few years ago, two people who were in love held a wedding banquet in the presence of relatives and friends.

Later, Wan Lili became pregnant.

Wan Lili is both excited and nervous, but in addition to her excitement and nervousness, Wan Lili still has a big trouble, that is, she has not yet obtained a birth certificate.

To say that the process of applying for a birth certificate is not complicated, as long as you are a legal couple, you can apply for it after you prepare the relevant materials.

But for Wan Lili and Wan Zifei, they have to apply for a birth certificate and another certificate - a marriage certificate.

However, they have been married for nearly three years. They have been going to the marriage registration office a lot, but they have never been able to obtain a marriage certificate. What makes

troublesome for two people is that they cannot get a birth certificate without a marriage certificate. In the future,

will have a series of problems such as children going to school, employment, marriage, etc., which will be very troublesome.

Wan Zifei and Wan Lili are in love with each other and have already held a wedding according to local customs, longing to give each other a legal identity.

2,

In this modern society where marriage is free, two people like each other, if you like it, why can't

register for marriage?

There is no problem with the age of the two, and they are both getting married for the first time, and there is no medical situation that they should not be married.

So, what is the reason why the two cannot apply for a marriage certificate?

is originally , their account book shows that Wan Zifei and Wan Lili are both children of householder 0,000 to withdraw gold,

Wan Zifei is son , Wan Lili is a daughter, they are brothers and sisters Relationship,

Therefore, it does not meet the conditions for marriage registration stipulated by the Marriage Law.

Wan Lili and Wan Zifei are actually prohibited relativesrelationship, and they are also direct relatives within three generations!

is this true?

Two young people in their twenties, don't even have this common sense of ethics and law?

Just looking at the household registration information, Wan Zifei and Wan Lili are brothers and sisters, that's right.

However, things are not that simple. Although the information on the household registration book shows the relationship between

and , they are indeed brothers and sisters in life, but they are not brothers and sisters.

3,

It turns out that Wan Lili is not the biological daughter of Wan Tuojin, she is just a child adopted by the Wan family more than 20 years ago. Brothers and sisters. Although

is an adopted daughter, Wan Zifei's parents have always regarded Wan Lili as their own for so many years.

So, since they are brothers and sisters, why do they become husband and wife?

It turns out that the reason behind Wan Zifei and Wan Lili getting married is related to the dying wish of mother .

So, what is the reason for a mother, when she is dying, to arrange for her biological son and adopted daughter to be married?

In order to treat his mother's illness, his father, Wan Tuojin, emptied his family property, and even spent all the money originally left for Wan Zifei to marry his wife.

and the deteriorating condition of my mother made the family , which was not rich, even worse.

Although the family tried their best to cure the mother's illness, they were unable to overcome the disease in the end. Wan Zifei's mother died of illness in 2010.

Wan Lili was very sad when her mother died early due to illness, because she and her mother had a very deep relationship.

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The mother, who was only 42 years old, left like this, which made the brothers and sisters Wan Zifei and Wan Lili grief-stricken. In addition to the grief of

, the brothers and sisters were still worried about another thing, that is, before the mother died 's entrustment.

Although Wan Zifei and Wan Lili have been obedient to their mother's words since they were young,

still felt very shocked and puzzled when they heard such an incredible exhortation from their mother!

Although this request was difficult for them to understand and accept at the time, in the face of the dying exhortation of a seriously ill mother, both brothers and sisters could not bear to refuse face-to-face .

In order to reassure the mother to leave, the brothers and sisters agreed to the mother's arrangement in person.

It is an embarrassing thing for the brothers and sisters who have lived together since childhood to suddenly become boyfriend and girlfriend.

But in the eyes of the filial brothers and sisters, the reason why the mother makes such a request is because of her unavoidable special reasons.

It turned out that Wan Zifei's mother was also forced to make a living, and she had no choice but to let her son marry his adopted daughter.

And he did not object to this request, as the father's 10,000 gold.

In Wan Tou Jin's view, in order to treat his wife's illness, the family has no money to marry a son-in-law. Moreover, Wan Zifei had reached the age of marriage, so he could only reluctantly accept his wife's request.

That's it, the whole family acquiesced to Wan Zifei's mother's arrangement.

However, from the verbal promise to the real acceptance of siblings becoming lovers, Wan Zifei and Wan Lili have experienced a lot of pain and struggle in their hearts.

Wan Lili said: "Before she married Wan Zifei according to her mother's will, she never fell in love."

She felt wronged and bitter, but in order to take care of her family, Wan Lili still chose to obey her mother's last wish. Changes in the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend.

5,

In 2012, Wan Zifei and Wan Lili held a wedding banquet.

The surrounding neighbors found it understandable and acceptable for the Wan family to marry their adopted daughter Wan Lili to their biological son Wan Zifei.

Because of the poverty of the family, Wan Zifei's mother put forward such a request to her children. But we do not agree and support, and hope that this kind of thing will not happen to other families again.

However, for Wan Zifei and Wan Lili, it is fortunate that both parties have successfully transformed their emotions and accepted each other voluntarily, and their marriage has not violated the law.

Finally, they consulted a lawyer. As long as they changed the relationship between the head of the household to the relationship of an adopted daughter through certain channels, the two would be able to get the marriage certificate smoothly.

This thing is unbelievable, and it makes sense ! The social problems reflected behind

are also worthy of our deep consideration.

In this environment where the bride price is inflated and it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, how should people choose?