Ruoru Institute of Emotions and Psychology
Someone asked: What is the best way to destroy a person?
The answer is to let him sit idle, develop the habit of eating and be lazy, and fall into the abyss of degeneration step by step.
As Zeng Guofan said: Hundreds of ills are born from laziness.
Laziness leads to relaxation, and relaxation leads to lax governance and insensitivity to fun. If one is late, a hundred will be slack.
But this method is only suitable for people who have no ability, for those who have ability, talent and ambition.
The quickest and best way to destroy him is in another form - to kill.
held him high, held him complacent, held him incompetent.
Then he will have disaster, and then he will make a big mistake, and this mistake will be big enough to make it difficult for him to turn around.
Therefore, in our life, we should also be vigilant of being "slaughtered" by others.
Be careful when someone touts you, it is very likely to be "touted".
On Zhihu, there is a high praise (high scolding) answer, the answerer shares how to PUA male:
You have to follow him hard, hold him, let him feel your deep worship .
Then you spend his money mercilessly, but don't say anything to demean him no matter how poor he is.
Feeding his self-esteem with adoration continues to drain his money and time.
Seeing that he couldn't hold it anymore, he cried and broke up reluctantly, only complaining that he was not good at raising him.
and other boys couldn't help begging for reconciliation, and then intensified and praised him and consumed his energy intensified.
makes the boy spin in the contrast between being extremely worshipped and being hit by reality. After a few rounds, his spirit will be abolished.
Lu Xun said: "To scold, you may not be scolded to death; but to praise is a method that can kill people." . The most powerful thing about
is that it has a strong temptation, which is hard to resist and hard to refuse.
Why?
I believe that many people have heard of "boiled frogs in warm water". Some scientists have done such an experiment:
Throw frog into high temperature water, the frog will jump out quickly due to the sudden high temperature stimulation of .
But if the water temperature of is suitable at first, make it feel comfortable, and then slowly heat it up.
By the time the frog felt that the water temperature was getting higher, it was too late and could no longer jump out. After
became popular overnight, everything about Dingzhen became the talk of netizens after dinner.
Excessive marketing, seemingly touted, but in fact destroyed.
The irrefutable compliments , praises, and touts, interweaving into an airtight giant net, slowly pulling Ding Zhen into the quagmire, and slaughtering is really the best way to destroy a person.
first pollutes his reputation and exposes his imperfections; then corrodes his spirit, "I'm so poor";
The final result is his future, and it may be an extravagant hope to be a quiet tour guide.
's stop to praise and kill, not only is not hindering the development of Ding Zhen's career, but it is dragging his career back on the right track. The accumulation of attention is far more reliable than the heat of traffic that whizzes and whizzes away.
Touting is worse than beating, when praise turns into a compliment.
The so-called "friends" who are constantly touted around them are fake good people lying in ambush, and they are more dangerous than enemies.
If the slander is good enough, does anyone still care about the slanderous advice ?
Don't blindly tout and praise a person, to kill, is the most ruthless means to destroy a person.
Hold each other up in action and make them happy.
is getting closer and closer to the customer under his series of "supporting" actions, and the project is getting more and more easy to talk about.
It is always a pleasant thing to be praised, but we always praise it as an appearance. What we need to be more vigilant about is that the other side of praise is "killing".
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