We always think of ourselves as a light that guides others. In the end, I found that I was just a light bulb, and it was arranged wherever it was needed...
said that a strong person must have a ruthless heart, and after the torture of life, it has become extremely hard. In this indifferent society, if you are not strong, no one will carry the burden for you.
Life is very short. If you want to be free and happy, please stop being too sensitive and make your heart strong! That way you won't be looked down upon by the world.
Too sensitive will suffer
We always love others wholeheartedly and be harsh and strict with ourselves. We are always cautiously concerned about the unhappiness of others, but we have never made our own lives more headaches. Because we are too sensitive, because we are mentally sick.
When I was a child, I had my favorite toys, but as long as a child suggested which one they liked, I would always give them a gift of pain in my heart. I always feel that if I care too much about toys and ignore the needs of others, I am a criminal.
I have accumulated pocket money for a long time, because my good buddies want to buy toys and borrow money, but I don’t want to, so I patted my chest and took out all the money in the piggy bank, and I never took the initiative to ask for it. To account. For fear of being called stingy by good buddies, my reputation will be ruined.
is an adult and has a good friend of the opposite sex who has known each other for many years. This friend is and confidante . The two of them have a good impression of each other, but they did not pierce the last layer of window paper to confess, because my brother also likes her , I want to pursue her, but I shamelessly give him advice, help write love letters, and give gifts. With my familiarity with her, does my best to help others pursue her.
In the end, she rejected the pursuit of buddy and gave up on me completely.I forcibly pushed her into someone else's arms. I want to say that I like her thousands of times in my heart, but because I am too sensitive, I feel that if I say it, I will be rejected, if my friends don't have to do it, if my failed buddies will resent me, etc...
I always Thinking about others, always worrying about what others think, never thinking about myself. Just like a clown, with thick makeup on his face and a harmless smile, his heart is extremely dark and irritable.
learns well, that's because 's parents can't be ashamed. Toys and pocket money are given to others, and I think others will praise my selflessness and generosity. Doing your best to satisfy your friend's requirements is to feel that friendship is greater than heaven. Pushing the girl I like into the arms of others is also because I care too much about the emptiness and never ask the real me.
I paid all my sincerity, but in the end, I became an incompetent white-eyed wolf in the eyes of my parents. Still alone, without many close friends. It's almost thirty, and I haven't met anyone who is excited. I may never meet the one she once was...
is really ironic!
7 points for your lover, 3 points for yourself!
If you don't love yourself, the world won't love you!
It is time to fight, is soft-hearted, is fatal,
Since ancient times, Chinese people have paid attention to without disputing humility. Although it is a famous saying, it is no longer suitable for today's society. This society is changing too fast, if you don't fight, others will take everything from you. You are humble and others will take it for granted. All your humility and retreat will make others feel that you are weak and can be bullied, and then all around you are slowly malicious.
Huang Bo once said: When you become famous, you are surrounded by smiling faces. When you are weak, there are white eyes around you.
In this society of the law of the jungle, soft-hearted people will be regarded as good people , and will be bullied by some people with ulterior motives. The good man eats leftovers , but squeezes out blood. You will be pointed at you, you will be seen as a useless person. All relatives and friends will stay away from you, everyone will not sympathize with the weak, but only worship the strong!
There are many poisonous chicken soups for the soul on the Internet, most of which are free from desires and desires, and God will arrange everything for you. Those are all methods of spiritual victory. Can the ancient human society be comparable to the fast pace of today?
If you don't want good things, a lot of people are rushing for them. If you don't cherish a good girl, she will become someone else's wife and mother. If you don’t want to be in the top position, then you will always be a little fish who can be bullied by others. When your parents are old and need money, you sigh and sigh, but you can’t do anything...
A famous teacher said: We are in the middle of the ladder. In the middle, the superiors look down on us, and the inferiors look up at us. If we want to live a happy and free life, we must learn to look at everything equally.
To be soft-hearted to the poor is called mercy, and to be soft-hearted to the wicked is to be slaughtered.
We don't want to be a bad guy, we just want to be a good that no one dares to underestimate.
Being too sensitive is a disease, and being too soft-hearted is fatal.
May everyone be covered with thorns and have a bright heart! We can protect those we love, and we can be a light in the lives of others!