Walking with loneliness: Some people say that people prefer to feel lonely when they are middle-aged. There is no like or dislike, some just can bear it!
A real warrior, dare to face the bleak life, dare to face the dripping blood, this is from Lu Xun's article, this sentence contains everything about middle-aged people.
We can imagine how much pressure is there for middle-aged people in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the first-tier cities where housing prices and prices remain high. And at this moment, they have to face a problem: unemployment.
Unemployment is a bolt from the blue for middle-aged men. This should be the one thing he is most afraid of, and it is also the last straw that broke the camel's back.
They are no longer young, they have more and more things to consider, and they can no longer be so self-willed. Commitment, responsibility, and the future are all urging them to move forward. Even if the weather is cold and the road is long and the horse is dead, the middle-aged men have to carry heavy luggage and move forward step by step. They used to be teenagers in fresh clothes and angry horses, but in middle age, when they find that their parents are getting old and their children are young, they have to shoulder the burden of family .
Forty in life: one is carrying the child, the other is carrying the old man; one is carrying sunrise , the other is carrying sunset . Year after year, I always feel a little more about in life, feel a little more about life, and have more anxiety . Who is not carrying the pressure and rushing forward at the same time. How many times I want to let go of everything and give myself a long vacation, but it is always just a thought, there is no real vacation.
"I don't have a deposit, I don't dare to rest". This sentence is the heart of many middle-aged people. Car loan and home loan, let yourself take a breather.After a day off, the pressure not only did not decrease, but increased the anxiety of the mind, and had to say to myself: "Okay, continue to work".
The sadness of middle-aged people is that no one is there to accompany them. A middle-aged man often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is full of people who want to rely on , but there is no one he can rely on. In fact, not only middle-aged men feel lonely, but so are middle-aged women.
In middle age, people start to think about life, but they find that they are the farthest from their real self. They are trapped in career, health, family, etc. When a person reaches middle age, he will vaguely feel lonely. There are people around who need to rely on you, but there is no one you can rely on. It can only be felt, experienced, reminisced, and grown in the ups and downs...
People feel a kind of responsibility in middle age called being strong. When people reach middle age, standing in the middle of the long road of life, looking back and forth, they are all boundless. In the past, I was worried about my parents who were getting older and older, and then I was worried about their underage children. The old age, the future of children. Family responsibility, middle-aged you must take all the wind and rain on your shoulders.
Middle age is full of bitter tears. Whether it is a father or a mother, a husband or a wife, now that we have reached this age, we cannot escape and cannot escape. The previous generation once carried our family on their backs, and now it is We, too, have a duty to feel sorry for our parents, whose temples are and white and . We hope that our children will become talents. What we can do is to pat the dust and move on.
When we are middle-aged, the hardships of our careers and the trivialities of our families make us exhausted. We dare not say that we are young in the mirror; we can wait if we dare not say that to life. Looking at the elderly parents, looking at the young children, I dare not have the slightest slack.
Go ahead, middle-aged, you cry! Your cowardice! Your grievance! Your helplessness! Your... these don't make any sense. All that can be done is to move forward, and remember that middle-aged people have no way out.
