2020.3.10 GOODNOON
I am brother, I just want to help you not easily lose a relationship
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Fans help:
Because it took twelve hours to reply to the message, some disputes occurred.
For this relationship, he always feels that he does not take it so seriously. We have less than a month in the beginning,
But I feel that this state is the state of a couple after six months to a year.
I can’t figure out how he feels about me...
Do you like it or not?
Can Zige help me analyze it.
replies:
You have only been together for more than a month, so it is difficult to communicate and not care. This start is a bit dangerous.
Judging from your conversations, your boyfriend's reaction looks a bit too extreme.
His reply to you is very extreme, even a bit like being pressed aggressively.
Only you can ask yourself this point, do you always like to chat with him, or how sticky are you?
From the perspective of normal couples,
I think the connection most girls want is a sense of intimacy and caring, which will not really consume a lot of time and energy.
is like morning,You send him good morning, all you want is that he gets up and looks at his phone,
and then happily responds to you with a good morning, and then maybe a few sweet words, and then go to work.
To put it bluntly, it is just a matter of effort. The expectation and requirements of girls are not excessive at all.
After all, as contemporary people, the first thing we do when we wake up is basically to look at our mobile phone.
On the way to work, we often listen to music and use our mobile phones to kill time.
As for working hours, no matter what kind of work, it is impossible to be busy until the end of the day as soon as you go to get off work.
is always breathing, drinking a glass of water and sneaking in the toilet for at least a few minutes.
and the lunch time at noon and evening, as well as the time after get off work.
means that couples only have time to spend a day and spend their time together.
lunch and sometimes dinner can be understood to have a good relationship with colleagues.
It doesn't take much time to reply a few words to the one you love, and it is harmless.
In addition, I am really exhausted from work during the day. I really want to do what I like to do when I get home.
can be 24 hours a day, except for work and communication,
saves the rest of the time to things that I like, and then uses the sentence "talk when you have time to talk" .
I think it is very selfish and rascal. When a person does what he likes, he will always have no time.
When there is time, it is often that when you are tired and sleepy and want to sleep, you will lose your energy when you have time.
If you think you are not a work, you will not always bomb him with text messages, not a girl who is particularly sticky to him.
Then his behavior is to play love hooligans in the name of working hard for the future,
said that you are not good to hear, you are what he calls and you will come and go, and the initiative will always be in his hands.
You say you can’t guess whether he loves you or not, so I can’t help but have a guess.
usually when he needs you, for example, the most direct thing is sex, or other life needs that require you to help.
Does he behave more enthusiastically and tenderly toward you at this time?
If so, it does show that you are more like an accessory to him.
His kindness and courtesy to you is nothing more than to satisfy his own desires and needs.
In other words, the way he loves you is selfish, and it can also be said that he doesn't love you that much.
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