I am sick and unwell and want my son to take me to the hospital. But after I called my son and daughter-in-law, my son told me that he would either give me a pension of 100,000 yuan or send me to a nursing home.
Hanging up my son's phone, I couldn't help but burst into tears. Others talk about raising children to guard against old age, but now it seems to me that raising a son must guard against his son and daughter-in-law.
My wife and I have worked hard all our lives, just for our only son. It's just that after the son got married, he was instigated by his daughter-in-law and stayed away from our parents. And because the house was not bought for them in full, and the daughter-in-law was only given 80,000 beauties instead of 160,000, the daughter-in-law could not hold her head up at her natal house.
So after the daughter-in-law got married, she kept holding my son in her palms, not letting him go back to his parents' house or let him get close to us. Later, after the daughter-in-law became pregnant and gave birth to a grandson, her natal parents were unwilling to help, so the daughter-in-law reluctantly asked me to come home to serve the confinement.
I was flattered and automatically took care of all the things to take care of my daughter-in-law and grandson. The daughter-in-law does not need to worry about every day, just feed the child on time. For this reason, I have been busy for more than a month, and my back pain has been committed again. But seeing my grandson's gradually rounded face, I feel that no matter how hard it is, it's worth it.
Later, when my daughter-in-law asked me, she could only leave me at home to help her grandson. In this area, I took it for six years. During the period, I did not use my pension to subsidize my son's family. Every time I need to buy something at home, my daughter-in-law always asks me to pay. I feel a little disgusted when the frequency increases, thinking that my daughter-in-law will only chew on the old.
Seeing that I was reluctant to pay, my daughter-in-law gave me a look and was beaten and beaten in front of me all day long. After my grandson went to elementary school, my daughter-in-law wanted me to pay for my grandson's tuition, but this time I hid my selfishness and said that I didn't want to take out my last 100,000 yuan. In the end, my daughter-in-law said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was incompatible, and directly asked my son to send me back to my hometown.
Although I am reluctant to accept my grandson in every possible way, my daughter-in-law has crossed the river and demolished the bridge. I don't want to stay in the way and annoy me anymore. It's just that my body has gradually worn out during the six years of taking care of my grandson.
my wife passed away a few years ago,After returning to my hometown, I live alone. Slowly, various discomforts appeared in the body. But as long as it is not a serious problem, I usually bear it myself. It’s just that the back pain is terrible this time. I called my son, but my daughter-in-law rushed over and said, asking you to take out a pension of 100,000 yuan, but you wouldn’t take it. Why do you ask us for help now?
The son also agreed with him, or he would take out a pension of 100,000 yuan, and I would return to his son’s home to provide for the elderly. Either they send me directly to a nursing home and let me live with my one hundred thousand pension.
My son’s words make me sad. I worked as a paid nanny for my son and daughter-in-law for six years, but now they see that I am unwilling to give out a pension of 100,000, so they all despise me and want to shirk the responsibility of pension.
Thinking of this, I really want to cry without tears. I don't want to go to a nursing home, where it is cold and there is no warmth at all. But if I don’t go, what should I do? Is it really necessary to subsidize all this 100,000 pension funds to his son?
Sentiment analysis:
At any time, parents must leave a way for themselves. Although we often talk about raising children to prevent old age, in today's society, raising children does not necessarily prevent old age. Because parents also have to guard against their sons, asking for and cheating on the old.
Since I have a pension of 100,000 yuan and I don't want to go to a nursing home, this aunt may as well take the money and ask a reliable nanny to take care of her daily life. Although I spent some money, my life in old age was guaranteed.
After all, I depend on my son, so I guess I can't rely on it. And even if you give all your old books to your son, will your daughter-in-law be grateful and rewarded? Therefore, parents still have to have money in their hands in order to stay calm.
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