text | old witch
For many people, the first person to leave a mark on their emotional life is often very unforgettable, whether it is a good memory or a bad one Memory, first love can always rely on its unique position to leave a place in people's hearts.
For infatuated people, first love is often like a white moonlight or a cinnabar mole. It stays firmly in the heart, just like Cancer. No matter how beautiful the person behind, it may not exceed the first love in the heart. This is easier to affect the relationship life afterwards.
So, before being with someone, it’s best to figure out where their first love is in their hearts, and whether you can accept this reality. With this psychological preparation, decide whether to Being together is a more responsible approach.
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01 All the efforts have been sincerely
Cancer is a typical action group in interpersonal communication. They want to be good to whom, mostly It is directly put into action, not just lip service, but in many cases, their actions are not from their sincerity.
For people who are unfamiliar with them, Cancer’s goodwill, in addition to his own goodwill, also expects the other person to return to himself with the same behavior. Therefore, although many people have a particularly good impression of Cancer because of their dedication, but In fact, Cancer may still have a certain distance from the other person in his heart.
But when faced with their first love, Cancer will be much more positive in their attitudes, and their efforts will no longer appear passive, because in this case Cancer is good to each other and often does not have any expectation of return. Psychologically, they sincerely hope that the other party can feel happy because of their efforts. Of course, if the other party can respond, then Cancer will feel very satisfied and happy.
The time spent with the first love is probably the time that Cancers spend unscrupulously, so in any case, for them, this period of time is relatively unforgettable, especially for many Cancers. For those who are emotionally sensitive and very sensitive, their efforts during this period of time cannot be forgotten.
02 I regret that there are often, but it is clear to cherish the people in front of you
In fact, what many Cancers cherish is not their own dedication, but the trust and dependence that is reflected in that period of dedication, Cancer is very easy Feeling uneasy, because they will have certain thoughts in many aspects, so it is actually very rare to have such a person and let them give without scruples.
So if the first love can't accompany Cancer to the end, then Cancers may often feel very sorry in their hearts. After all, they have paid sincerely. They have really thought about it and wanted to live with it.
The other party has been getting old for a long time.
But no matter how regrettable, life still has to go on. Cancers are better in this regard. Although they are emotional, they also know to focus on reality. They have things in their hearts, but they can’t do it for those who don’t. Give up things and give up your future life.
So Cancer will neither forget their first love, nor will they ignore their current lover because of this. For Cancer, every person who appears in their lives and makes them emotional, They are all precious and worthy of their attention.
For Cancer, there may be few precious people, but they should not be the only ones. So what they have to do is to cherish every person who is worthy of their cherishment, and to empathize with every feeling worthy of them, but never because of the past Things that affect the current life.
