Have you ever experienced a classmate who had ever studied and grown up with you, had worse academic performance than you, and often detained students. After more than 10 years, he became famous, became the boss, and made money More than you?
Have you ever thought that you have worked hard throughout your life and often worked overtime. In the end, not only did you fail to make a lot of money, but even during the epidemic last year, your boss even cut your salary or even fired you because of operational problems?
On the contrary, in the post-epidemic situation, countless young people born in the 90s and 95s have made a lot of money by doing micro business, short video live broadcasts, and Bitcoin speculation.
This kind of gap between people, have you ever doubted your life?
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What is the biggest gap between people?
We have all heard that the gap between people is that one person lives without dreams while another person has dreams to promote. When a person is driven by a dream, his daily life is planned, purposeful and prioritized.
In 1979, the Harvard Business School conducted a survey and found that 84% of people in
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13% People who have a clear goal, but did not write it down
3% of people who have a clear goal, also wrote it down, even including a detailed execution plan
in 10 years ,Harvard University tracked these people who had done a survey, and there was a major discovery: 13% of people who had clear goals at the beginning earn twice as much as 84% of people who did not set clear goals.
However, the remaining 3% of people who were able to write down clear goals and detailed implementation plans at the beginning earn an average ten times higher than those who did not have clear goals.
It turns out that when we write down our dreams and implement them in detail, the power will be so powerful.
The difference between people is actually whether you have written down your dreams and can implement them.
But the big thing is, you have to dare to dream first.
When you have a dream, everything you think, think, and do every day will serve your dreams, and you will no longer be clouded by others, to spend time doing too many unproductive things.
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Everyone deserves to have a dream, but you need to understand the layout behind your dreams
The author's dream is not a high-level thing, and I believe that any ordinary person can do it.
It is to retire early, realize financial freedom early, love family, accompany friends, enjoy life and do what you like.
No need to buy a famous brand or drive a famous car, but do whatever you want, do meaningful things, and help and influence those in need. And in the future, he will no longer live for the company and the boss, but for himself.
At that time, you can be free, and you can buy a plane ticket anytime tomorrow,Fly to the north and south of the river with my family, go to any city on the earth to experience life.
I believe that the dreams mentioned above are all people’s common needs. I hope that I can spend more time with my family and friends, and live the life I want to live as I want. But in real life, how many people have seriously thought about and succeeded in doing it?
The reality is that many people are working precariously, and even many people have no jobs after the epidemic. In order to support their wives and children, they are trying to find and do a job that has no time and freedom, is not what they enjoy and is willing to do.
Because of the great pressure in life, many people have become prudent and narrow in their thinking. What they see with their eyes is only the current food and clothing, but there is no room to think about the future. I knew a friend who needed to work part-time in the evening to make up for his family by delivering food delivery courier part-time in order to support his family and children.
But as shared in the book "The Meaning of Life", even if the enemy can torture your body, it can't control your inner thoughts. Although we will encounter all kinds of difficulties in life, we still have autonomy in our minds, and we can imagine that we can fly to higher mountains.
In addition to dreams in life, we must also cultivate a kind of thinking, which is to make a layout for the future life.
"The Meaning of Life" author Victor Frank was arrested by the Nazi Germans in 1942 and sent to a concentration camp. After entering the concentration camp, his newlyweds later died in Bergen-Beilson concentration camp in Germany. But he did not give up. On the contrary, he aroused a strong desire in his heart and made plans to go out one day. It was his strong will to survive that allowed him to survive.
As ordinary people, how can we achieve our dreams?And through the layout thinking to realize the dream?
There is a saying that the more careful you think about and the layout of the future, the higher your chances of realizing your dreams.
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Learn to dream and pursue life at the same time
In the post-epidemic era, every step we take and every investment decision we make requires careful consideration and deployment. "The Poor Charlie Collection" once said that our investment in the stock market should be like 20-hole lottery coupons. Every decision is expensive and not expensive. If you invest in the stock market no more than 20 times, you They will not invest indiscriminately.
When you realize that both the opportunity cost and time cost of life are scarce, you will be more cautious in making your layout.
1. First of all, be sure to save money every month, and manage the money well, to learn fixed investment, to do investment and financial management. reinvest the money he saves every month, and practice using money to work for himself, and money generates money.
Money has the advantage of making money, that is, it can make full use of the compound effect. Einstein said that the compound effect is hailed as the eighth wonder of mankind. Even if we are not smart enough to achieve annualization of only 10 to 12 points per year, the compound interest accumulated after a few years is still very amazing. It can exceed 60% or even more. This is enough and can overcome most of the market’s pursuit of short-term returns. People.
Teacher Li Xiaolai pointed out in the book "Determined Investment Changes Destiny", he pointed out that the fixed investment must last for at least 7 years to achieve considerable returns, because the fixed investment plan will go through two major cycles in these 7 years, and it will rise and fall. In the cycle, the fixed investment can make the difference, and finally achieve a considerable return through the accumulation of time.
As Teacher Li Xiaolai said,People who can develop long-term thinking will not have a bad life.
People who are good at making plans for life must also have long-term thinking.
2. Use speeches and words to increase your influence , as shared in the book "The Road to Wealth Freedom", when you can increase your influence, you can improve your own money more effectively Ability.
Influence does not happen overnight. It is not that if you helped others today, a group of people will come to you for help tomorrow. But if you can stand on the stage bravely and give a passionate speech for 3 minutes, the influence you will bring can be widely inspiring and bring unlimited influence to your life.
There have been surveys and studies. Speech is the most feared behavior of human beings, ranking higher than death. Simply put, speaking is more uncomfortable for people than death. But on the contrary, if you can make a successful speech, you will be able to shock people and infect countless people to follow you and help you realize your dreams.
3. Learn to be altruistic, know how to find the needs of others, increase your sensitivity to the needs of those around you, think about what others think, and think about problems and methods from the perspective of others. When we can find our own position and achieve others, we can naturally bring value to each other, and money will naturally flow to you.
Each of us will always face two things in our life: education and work. Both of these elements directly or indirectly affect your chances of achieving your dreams or goals in your heart. But if you know the layout, there is another factor that you will think of, it is the network resources.
Mobike Hu Weiwei, co-founder of bike-sharing, before starting his business,It was just a reporter, but because of an opportunity, she came to know an angel investor named Lee Kai-Fu. After Lee Kai-Fu's discussion, she took action and quit her job and started to work. In the end, she succeeded. Later, she sold Mobike's shared bicycles and earned tens of billions. On the one hand, this is due to Hu Weiwei 's decisive and high execution personality; on the other hand, it is also because of her careful layout in the shared bicycle business, and also the investment of Innovation Workshop, Red Shirt Capital and Tencent.
Today is the era of individualism. Everyone has at least one or even two mobile phones. When we walked down the street, we always saw countless people with their heads down, looking at their mobile phones, doing what we liked.
But in your life, can you often think about the needs of others?
In fact, every day in society, there are many people who need to be helped and cared about. This huge demand is too big for you to estimate. As long as you can grasp the rigid needs of the public, the value created will be very great.
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At the end
Founder of SF Express Wang Wei came to Hong Kong to settle at the age of 7 and went to a very ordinary school. After graduating from high school, he only worked as a part-timer and did not go to university. But when he was 23 years old, he had an idea and dream, that is, the demand for express delivery by small and medium-sized enterprises in Hong Kong and China will increase, so he used 100,000 yuan to start a business and opened a company called SF Express.
At the beginning, he was the only one who ran around carrying the courier package every day. What he did was the grassroots workers. He was exposed to the sun and rain every day, but he was different from others. He has a dream in his heart. Driven by the dream, he began to make a layout for his business, and then through daily persistent efforts, he put down the bottom to pursue the dream, and then his business grew bigger and bigger.Keep recruiting people to work.
Actually, Wang Wei just repeats one simple thing every day, which is to think about how to do a good job of service and satisfy customers.
Today, he has a net worth of over 100 million, and he is also on the top ten of the Hurun Rich List, ranking fourth, and his net worth has surpassed the richest man in Hong Kong Li Ka-shing .
Do we dare to pursue and persist in our dreams, or do we already have a great idea in our hearts?
If you already have a good idea and dream, please write it down and read it aloud every day to believe that you can do it. One day, I believe you will be able to make your dreams come true.
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