2021/02/18 Thursday
Article | Ruuer
strong3 strong 3 strong pictures It's been two days since the movie, and I, with low tears, can't hold back my tears in front of these themes. After all, some feelings require hindsight to speak calmly. The so-called stamina is nothing but this, it will affect many emotions and moments after you walk out of the theater. In the past few days, I have watched many people's feelings on the movies in Moments and Weibo. In addition to being moved and crying, I also want to share some of my own feelings today: 1. The world can teach us The greatest cherishment and greatest regret is: lost forever. It seems that we will always unscrupulously throw bad emotions and bad tempers on the people closest to us, even if we reflect on it again and again afterwards, it is inevitable that we should not be so upset. Because we know our relatives, we will not leave easily, but will easily tolerate and forgive us. Even though we have been learning how to love relatives, friends, and lovers, it seems that we have to wait for complete loss before wondering whether time can go back, so that everything can be restarted. 2. Sincere, always the most straightforward to impress people. This film is the first work directed by Jia Ling. It has not only surpassed 3 billion so far, it has also become the highest-grossing female director in China. In this movie, there are not so many special effects, and there is no prosperous and complicated brain-burning storyline. It is more like a gift to heaven Li Huanying. The content expressed with heart is most moving. Every one of us watching the movie, laughter and tears are the most true feedback from our hearts. 3. For many moments in life, maybe we will do it again, and we will still make the same choice. Li Huanying thinks that turning back in time can change her mother's destiny and her own destiny. As everyone knows, Li Huanying still chooses to be her mother, and Jia Ling will still become the daughter who is loved and also loves her mother. And those people and things that you think you can make another choice will still have the forward and long distance they should have. Everyone has something they want to do all over again, and want to go back in time to a certain moment. Before, I thought about it again, everything will be different. The longer I lived in the future, the more I felt: The people and things that we thought could be considered are actually the best arrangements for destiny, and it is also our most authentic behavior at that moment. Some people, some things, some experiences, some love. Once, precious, good or bad, enough. 4. Everyone has his own unique and most special shining point. It does not need to be recognized by everyone, but only needs to shine brightly with the one you love. Jia Ling may not be the best daughter in the world, but she may be the daughter who can make herself happy and care about the end of life in Li Huanying's eyes. Throughout our lives, we may have many identities, but from the moment of birth, we will always be parents' favorite daughters and sons. Thinking of what Yang Mi said before: One day, the distance between us and the god of death is only separated by our parents. Everyone doesn't know what will happen in the next life. Time has given us a lifetime to have the honor to play a role that will be loved until death. Then we must "play" well and love the person we should love with our hearts. 5. We should never underestimate each other’s love. The biggest tear of the movie is the reversal of the last fatal blow, right? Jia Ling did her best to make up for her regret and love for her mother, but she did not know how to start again, still living in her mother's silent love. There are too many forms of love between loving and being loved. Most of us always think that we have given enough love, and we can even move ourselves. But being loved is easier to show and feel than to love. Sometimes, in the face of love, we feel inferior and feel that we are not worthy of some love. But we are too "confident", a lot of our "self-righteous" dedication and love, only to discover in the end: in front of greater love, only a little bit of stars. 6. Those long losses may be regrettable, but it is more like a lamp that can bring us light when we feel that life is dim and hopeless and lose expectations. It is hard to imagine that in this life, each of us has to feel the feeling of complete loss of affection. also has to admit that accepting the loss, learning to say goodbye and letting go of this subject requires personal practice. Maybe, the way to cushion the loss of pain is not just to miss, or to go back to the past to make up for regrets; but to cherish and appreciate everything you have now. One month, two months, half a year or even longer, our emotions towards Li Huanying’s movie have long since fallen. The Internet has memories, but it is more of a rapid iteration of layers of news and emotional speech. Hope, every time we return to our lives, don’t forget that every time we are moved by the movie, the meaning of tears is: Learn to be in the present, to love the people around us, and become the eyes of the beloved Li and his own eyes are a better self. Weibo: @番尼兔 NetEase cloud song search: Fanny rabbit Little Red Book: @番尼兔 Daily Picture|Music -updated from time to time and closed from time to time-
