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"Twenties, grow wild "
2021.2 .16
The 995th day of the pig rabbit with you
1. Background introduction
Readers who are familiar with me know that I am a graduate of 2020, and I went around and worked in my hometown.
Current monthly income ≈ this job + self-media income (manuscript fee + operation + promotion) + knowledge payment (lecture + training) + fund income, and some fractional income will not be mentioned for the time being. Of course, in addition to the income of the job, the rest of the income is not stable.
is the provincial capital of my hometown, a second-tier city. The 2020 GDP is estimated to be 580+ billion, the per capita GOP exceeds 15,000 US dollars, the house price is around 1.5w/㎡, and the rest of the consumption is medium. I take out a simple Chinese meal for around 35 yuan and go out with friends To play, you can spend about 600 yuan cumulatively in 24 hours (excluding shopping, only for eating and drinking + visiting stores). The above is for reference only.
is not so much a depiction of the current state of life, it is more of a review of myself. Regarding the zero-zero and subtle impact of economic changes, there are some from the mouth of a 21 year old girl The idea is not too mature.
2. Economy & Freedom
Years ago, I had a gathering with a few friends and everyone made a wish that they would get rich in the new year. I asked, how much do you want to be rich? Some people say they want to realize the freedom of cherries,Some people say that Starbucks freedom is to be realized, and some people say that freedom of dressing is to be realized... But even if it is specific to a certain commodity, it is difficult to measure what freedom is.
When my advertising fee exceeds 500, I can invite friends to eat at any store in Beijing Tianjie; when my advertising fee exceeds 1k, I can be my favorite NIKE girl...
But when I When my income increases, will I be free?
does not.
In the face of low-level desires, I am not free most of the time. This kind of lack of freedom is my active choice and self-driving restraint that is not related to economic conditions, such as not being able to eat and drink freely because of my body;
In the face of high-level desires, I do not have a trace of freedom. Unfreedom at this time is my forced choice and a dilemma that is inseparable from the economic situation.
I saw this picture yesterday:
Maybe when some people are still looking for the freedom of milk tea, others have already traveled freely; when many parents are running for school freedom, some people have turned their goal to freedom of nationality.
When willbe completely free? This is the second topic discussed next.
The economic base determines the superstructure, and this superstructure is also reflected in the degree of freedom. I used to want to achieve freedom of food and travel. Now, what I want most is school freedom (saving study abroad expenses).
One of the reasons why I want to continue to consolidate the economic foundation is probably because I realize that the pleasure, satisfaction, and happiness that high-level freedom brings to people are more permanent, and this high-level freedom can actually be transformed into productivity , To promote further improvement of the economic base, just like the PDCA cycle, always in the process of optimization and upgrade.
3. Economy & happiness
I feel more and more,The so-called material basis is like a higher function without an optimal solution, and its relationship with the happiness index cannot be simply drawn on the coordinate axis.
When I was earning three or four hundred per day, looking at the to do list of a friend (in the media industry) that said 10,000 per day, my immediate feelings were shocked, unbelievable, and small suddenly, but it didn’t take long. It also derives into doubts, and even a certain degree of "conspiracy theory", I thought to myself: 10,000 yuan a day, what's a joke? !
Later, I still worked hard on my one-third acre of land. As the harvest got better and better, I continued to cultivate and fertilize, and finally saw that there were many people in another village. They all have ten acres of fertile land and use intelligent equipment.
I looked down at the hoe I was holding, and looked back at the golden crops along the way. At that time, I realized that I had unknowingly jumped out of the original circle.
But, will I continue to bury my head in reclamation and work hard, facing the loess and back to the sky all day?
No, I want to take a break.
I want to slow down, sit in my field basking in the sun, take a nap, and when I wake up, I will slowly harvest the crops and take it home before dusk to cook rice. , And talk with your parents.
I will turn off my mobile phone and not read the news reports about people in the same village. After all, it always creates anxiety all the time; I will look at the happy appearance of the whole family and feel happy alone, but fortunately, I have enough crops. , These savings can give me a break.
As for when will we start again and cultivate again?
understand that people naturally have their own ideas.
When my economic foundation reached above the average line, I began to have time to think and have the opportunity to choose, about the balance of economy and happiness. It does not have an optimal solution, but there is always an optimal solution. That is the answer I want to pursue along the way.
4. Economy & Emotion
Want bread or love? I am becoming more and more indifferent to such problems,Feel more boring.
As for bread, I will remain financially independent as always. As for love, I really don't like to be filled with unnutritious affection or short chores from parents.
There is a statistics in sociology, as shown in the figure, so I won’t repeat it.
I do not advocate the slightly extreme theory of "being a rich and rich woman, even if she is single, she is smart and comfortable", and I do not agree with the seemingly vulgar view of "getting married early, taking care of both sides, and living the day together" .
The influence of economy on emotions, for me, is more confidence and protection, more prudence and reservedness, and it also affects my view of mate selection.
I will not choose or abandon someone because of economic conditions, nor will I be moved by the low cost of pouring warm water and ordering takeout. While the economy is improving, I can become a more rational person.
What I like is the other party's conversation, knowledge, business vision, control ability, emotional stability, etc., because I know that to develop these advantages, the cost is extremely high. The object I want is an ally in the battlefield of life, an example that can wake me up, and a fellow traveler who can be parallel and compatible with each other.
5. Summary
What kind of life can you live in such a less developed city with a monthly income of 30,000?
Sorry, there is no description of "drunk and gold fans" in life in the whole article of more than 2,000 words, nor any talk about "whatever you want" when shopping.
My material desires are getting lower and lower, my curiosity is getting stronger and stronger, and I have become more relaxed little by little. I enjoy the simple life of the moment, I also love the always calm personal heart, and I love the lightness that emotional stability brings to me.
21 years old,I hope that while I am getting more and more vigorous, I can also become more and more gentle.
and above, encourage each other.
Frankly speaking, when I wanted to write this topic on a whim last night, I still felt a little bit nervous and hesitant.
First, I don’t want to talk about my income, even my parents don’t even know about my savings. Second, compared with some of my peers on the WeChat list, the number of monthly income of 30,000 is really not on the table. .
But when a certain platform happened to recommend this related topic to me this morning, I was still determined to record something. What's more, today's fifth day is the day to welcome the God of Wealth. Hahaha, after thinking about it, let's talk about money openly.
is more about sharing some of my own feelings and thoughts, and it may change with future experience. Anyway, outputting opinions is a "dangerous" thing, but I think we are all growing, right? ?
Good night, and another late sentence: Happy New Year!
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