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The ancients said: "Everything is inferior, only reading is high." Since ancient times, people have believed that reading is the only way to change destiny, and doing anything well is not as good as reading a book. Good.
In fact, reading can really change the destiny, especially for children born in poverty. Apart from reading this way is fair, it is really difficult to get involved in other ranks without personal connections.
Life is like a race between the tortoise and the hare. The person who can win the victory in the end is not the first to start, nor is it necessarily talented, but the one who can clenched his teeth to the last.
No success is as simple as it seems on the surface. Behind the success, there are always unknown sadness. Those who seem to be famous overnight, and the good fortune that turns around in the past are not favored by God, but the parties have gone through all the hardships. After the hard work, we ushered in the harvest.
Life is like this. The harder you work, the life looks so lucky. Behind every glamor is a tired soul.
In a family, if the members have the following three signs, they will soon usher in blessing and good luck. It is worth congratulating.
mentality gradually improved, calm and not irritable
"Cai Gen Tan" has a saying: "Fortune is good for little things, and disaster is not for over-heartedness. Only those who have suffered will know less Fortunately, only those who are at peace know that more heart is a disaster.”
said that blessing comes naturally when a person's inner affairs are low, and when a person feels disaster, it is mostly out of suspicion and worry. Happiness or misfortune mostly comes from the heart of the person involved, whatever the mood of life is.
When a person’s mentality gradually improves and he is no longer anxious in the face of things, it means that the person’s life is getting better. People who go uphill are always calm and calm, so they can work hard Forward.
Details determine success or failure, mentality determines fate. The fate of a person with a good mentality is certainly not much different. To be a man we must understand the principle of "benefit and misfortune depend on each other",Saiweng, who lost a horse, not only won the horses but also saved his son's life after several setbacks.
So, in many cases, mentality is more important than the matter itself. No one is always going downhill, and no one is always going smoothly. It is normal to encounter stumbling in life, and being calm and not impatient is the right way to solve the problem.
Be good at peace and maintain a good moral character
Young people are always full of blood, not only full of curiosity and desire to conquer the world, but also very impulsive, and they are extremely impulsive. common.
However, it is not a coincidence but a destiny that often comes with unlucky things and sad fate in people who frequently appear in this situation.
If a person never understands that he cannot speak well, his destiny will always be unsuccessful. After all, no one would be willing to deal with a swearing person.
Even blood relatives will not be happy to help and accept the person who speaks badly.
As the saying goes, mutuality is born from the heart, words are born from the heart, and the eyes are the windows of the soul. How a person's soul cannot be hidden can easily be distinguished from words and deeds.
Therefore, it is very important to control your mouth. Don’t think that words and no action can’t cause harm. The facts are like the old saying: “Good words are warm in winter, and bad words hurt people in June.”
From another aspect, virtue is to do good deeds. Those who are blessed will be blessed, and those who love will love to return. Those who do good will be blessed.
Family harmony, orderly and humility of the young and old
Zeng Guofan said: "The prosperity of family luck lies in harmony, filial piety, and diligence." Obviously, a prosperous family must do first It is harmony.
Of course, the harmony mentioned here is not about the absolute unity of thinking among family members and never having friction, but the unity in major matters. To put it bluntly, it means knowing the overall situation. As for the small daily quarrels, they are secondary.It is completely negligible.
As the saying goes, family and everything are prosperous.
In a family, as long as there is no conflict of interests between members, it is the greatest luck. As people often say, "talking about money hurts feelings", if there is a gap between family members because of money, then this gap is bound to It will affect the emotions between each other, and even increase over time, splitting people's hearts.
"Xunzi·Junzi Pian" says: "Therefore, if the virtuous is enabled, the master will be in peace; noble and inferior, then the order will not flow; the closeness and the division, the implementation will not violate; the young and the order, Then the career will be more successful.”
Regardless of the family or any other unit, in this society, we must pay attention to rules and order. Only when we are in order, we can build harmony together, achieve mutual achievement, and advance separately.
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