The best love for children is that parents are the first to live a light
Some people ask, what is the best love for parents to their children?
Some people say it is an unconditional "sacrifice", and some people say it is a wholehearted "paying". Indeed, these are all love, but I think the best love is love that can make children open-minded, transparent and powerful.
This reminds me of the "inspirational top scorer" Pang Zhongwang , and his story may inspire us.
In 2017, Pang Zhongwang was admitted to Tsinghua , and after graduation in 2021, he was qualified for a doctorate in direct attack.
Behind the impressive achievements, there are also sad stories: Pang Zhongwang's mother was paralyzed and his father was mentally ill. He himself also suffered from congenital heart disease .
In order to treat a heart disease for Xiaozun, my mother sat in a wheelchair and walked through muddy and pothole-burning roads, borrowing money from house to house.
She never complains about life. By doing needlework, she repays 50,000 in foreign debts alone.
Six years of elementary school, Zhongwang has picked up 6 years of waste. The uniqueness of the family and the difficulties of life are the mother's words "You are the treasure of your mother", which gave him endless strength.
As media reports, his story was well-known to everyone. Someone asked him if he felt inferior because of his family?
He said, "My mother is so good, everyone should envy me."
My mother's open-mindedness gave him the courage to face the various aspects of life. As the saying goes, the face is born from the heart, and in every photo that everyone hopes, the corners of his mouth always rise.
There is a saying in psychology: "What kind of person are parents, it is far more important than what parents do for their children."
The best love for parents is not to be intoxicated by point-to-point "cramming", but to nourish them silently like a beam of light and moisten things.
This beam of light not only warms the child's heart and illuminates his way forward, but will also become the child's confidence throughout his life.
Good love is a ray of light to become the other person
When it comes to love, some people are willing to accept it, while others avoid it.
Only after being drunk, you will know that the wine is strong, and only after being loved is heavy.
I once read an article titled "I am such a "bad" person, and I have been loved sincerely."
The author is a girl who grew up in inferiority, sharing some beautiful clips of herself in the process of love.
For example: "New Year's Day is very close to the postgraduate entrance examination. My ex-boyfriend quietly came to my school from another place to look for me in the study room. But I got up late that day, afraid that I would not find a seat in the study room, and I was in the dormitory. Although the surprise was not successful, I thought about how he looked for me in the study room one by one, and I felt that he had loved me once."
"The day before the graduate school graduation defense, I went to school to confirm something with my tutor. When I returned to the hotel, I found that my white shirt was washed by my husband and used a hairdryer to half dry. , hang it on the clothes rack. It turned out that he found that the white shirt had wrinkles in the suitcase, and he didn't want me to be a little inappropriate in formal occasions. "
" In winter, the heating room was dry. I first watched TV in the living room, then went to the study to practice calligraphy, and then went to the bedroom to sleep. Finally, I realized that the humidifier followed me all the way. My husband kept moving around according to my movements. "...
" People always have times when they are in a bad mood, and often complain and don't have the courage to face the difficulties in life.
But if I could think of the fragments of being loved in my heart at that time and remind myself that I have always been cherished as a treasure, I would have the power to overcome cowardice.
It is said that if you like someone, there is light in your eyes.
The light actually comes from each other's hearts, it is to feel the tenderness emitted by being loved, it is because the other person's existence is grateful for the gift of life, and it is to think of the other person and feel that you can become better and more confident.
Every friend I have met has illuminated you
Friends are the relatives we are looking for for ourselves in this world. Although we do not have any flesh and blood relationship, we can still keep our hearts in mind.
College Brother Liu told the story of him and his friend Awang.
Both of them have dreams of taking the civil service exam. After a failure, they both drank a big drink together, and since then they made a vow that "the dream will not come true, and they will not get drunk."
This promise that sounds like a joke actually persisted under the teasing and supervision of the two.
Awang entered the interview and was attending a closed tutoring class, his father had a car accident.
Because people are in another place, they cannot arrive as soon as possible.
Awang called Brother Liu, and Brother Liu rushed to the scene without saying a word. Brother Liu accompanied Awang's father to have a full-body examination. The elderly lumbar fracture is not in danger of life, but needs to be hospitalized for treatment.
Brother Liu discussed with Awang's father that the exam was about to happen, so he refused to let Awang come back, and he was in the hospital for care.
Later, Awang successfully "got ashore". Whenever he mentioned his current good life, Awang said that without Brother Liu, there would be no today. The relationship between the two was no longer not only friendship, but also family affection.
Friends meet, know each other, and accompany each other mostly rely on fate. Sometimes it may be interrupted due to study, work, marriage, and having children. However, those times that have been with each other are beautiful as sunny as sunny for each other.
Every time you may meet many friends, who usually pull, talk, laugh, and fight, and don’t think there is any difference.
However, when you calm down and savor, they are all the light in your life, bringing you warmth and strength.
Love is a light
Each of us is born to be loved, enjoying the sunshine, rain and dew, enjoying the blessings of all things in nature, and enjoying the love of our parents.
And then in the journey of growth, make friends, encounter love, accept love, and give love.
We know love, have love, and understand the path of love, just like the process of meeting light, becoming light, and emitting light.
May we be loved throughout our lives and have light all the way.
