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Our children will leave home sooner or later, leave their parents, and learn to live independently.
The first time a child has a more obvious independent life is to leave home and become a living student. Some children start to live in junior high school, some children start to live in high school, and some lucky children start to live in college.
It is a big event for children to leave their homes and live in school. Parents should pay attention to this node. We should remind children to share, and they should also know how to protect their rights and interests.
Children must be tolerant and understanding, and be able to protect their rights and interests. Only when family education is in place can children be free and comfortable in social and life, live happily, tolerate others, and not harm their effective rights and interests.
A weird thing about the beginning of the freshman year, what should I do when I encounter such a roommate
A girl shared a weird thing about the dormitory online (although I was a little worried about her, I didn’t know what the relationship between the roommate would be after she knew it). But after reading it, she couldn’t help but complain: It’s really weird.
This girl said that after the start of freshman year, there was always a very unpleasant smell in the dormitory, the used "sanitary napkins" smell, and it seemed to be more unpleasant and more exciting.
But the girls always couldn't find the source. Later, when cleaning the dormitory, they finally found the source. It turned out that a roommate was pasting used sanitary napkins under the bed.
When I discovered it, the other girls were simply shocked, and they were disgusting, which was indescribable.
It is difficult for everyone to understand why we should do this. The explanation given by this girl is: it can repel mosquitoes. The reason
left other roommates speechless. Later, under their persuasion, these disgusting, more than 50 used sanitary napkins were removed.
This girl raised the issue of using a washing machine. Now the university dormitory is equipped with a washing machine. She complained that her roommate put the blood-stained clothes directly in to wash, which made her feel very uncomfortable and felt that it was unhygienic.
. Such behaviors are more special. If the roommates feel uncomfortable when they are in order to protect their personal rights, they can stand up and point out the other party’s behavior. However, when pointing out, you should pay attention to maintaining a gentle tone, pay attention to understanding the other party’s perspective, and then make personal suggestions, because everyone should still pay attention to maintaining their relationship, and it is best not to break up.
creates a harmonious atmosphere, relying on everyone's efforts to
What is the atmosphere of a dormitory? It is entirely created by everyone's joint efforts.
When we were in college, we had four girls' dormitories. Only our dormitories were harmonious, without any minor conflicts, at least there seemed to be no conflicts. Other dormitories were divided into gangs, and there were also people who didn't talk to each other. The main atmosphere of the daily dormitories was strangely quiet.
Some classmates said that we were assigned to a good dormitory, but it was not. There must be conflicts and differences among the four people in our dormitory, but everyone happened to be more tolerant, willing to communicate, and willing to close the door to solve the problem, so we had the friendship that came later.
Now we have all become mothers, and we have our own children. We will also tell our children how to get along with others in a gentle way. Without affecting our own rights, we can make others feel comfortable. To do this, we must first have an inclusive attitude and then try to communicate.
Don’t easily break up with friends or classmates. If you quarrel over some trivial matters, you should also be proactive and mentally prepared for .
The reason why I say that I should maintain the friendship between classmates, especially the roommates in high school and college, is that later I will find that these are actually the most precious friendship in life and the friendship that has been maintained for the longest time. It is highly likely that it will be a lifetime to remember the other person's name.
These instructions for children before they live in school should not be missing
Personal hygiene should pay attention to , and you should not mix cups and use shared equipment, such as washing machines, everyone should maintain it together. In the above example, when it comes to bloody clothes, do not use washing machines to avoid unnecessary cross-infection.
Other people’s privacy should respect . Before leaving home, the longest thing we instruct children is to protect their own rights and interests, and may forget to remind them to respect other people’s privacy.
is under the same roof, so you must have a sense of boundaries and not move other people’s things casually, unless two people really understand each other and become the best friends, you can sleep in the same bed. Even so, you cannot move other people’s things casually.
sense of boundary is something we emphasize to our children. Even the four students living together have their own small circles. This small circle is a personal safe area and is not allowed to be easily trampled on by others. We must have such a small circle, and at the same time we must respect other people's small circles. Although "small circles" like
are invisible, they always exist.
Want your child to be so self-aware and have a sense of ownership, and tolerate and understand others, and make others feel comfortable. It requires a long-term role model and slow guidance. As long as parents have such consciousness, children will easily form such consciousness.
