But even so, Qiaoqiao's mind was still hurt. It turns out that Qiao Qiao’s mother recently discovered that Qiao Qiao is not very active about going to school. Although children of the same age are more or less resistant to going to school, Qiao Qiao has always liked to stay in school and has good grades. Qiao Qiao's abnormal performance made Qiao Qiao's mother suspicious, so through various methods, Qiao Qiao finally expressed her psychological concerns.
It turned out that Qiao Qiao’s teacher often criticized Qiao Qiao in class, but Qiao Qiao did nothing wrong. Every time Qiao Qiao was criticized by the teacher, Qiao Qiao felt very faceless and sad. Afterwards, Qiao Qiao’s mother brought Qiao Qiao to the school to ask the teacher what was going on, and asked the teacher and Qiao Qiao to apologize, only after Qiao Qiao’s knot was finally solved.
Parents take care of their children’s physical health when guarding their children’s growth, and at the same time pay close attention to the children’s different psychological changes at each stage, so that they can solve different problems in the growth stage in time.
But sometimes, even if the parents' "protective" measures are done completely, some external influences and changes are still beyond our control.
There are some things that can’t be told to children
Some elders like to make jokes on juniors, they like to see their children crying, on the one hand because they think their children are cute and want to amuse them, on the other hand they are a kind of low-level fun psychology. By bullying children who are weaker than you, you can get a sense of satisfaction.
Parents should pay attention to the things that outsiders say in front of their children. Adults who don’t know how to take into account the children’s feelings and speak freely are not self-cultivation enough. If they cause harm to the children, the best way is to resolve the misunderstanding face to face. Don’t let these words in the children’s mind After taking root, it is not easy to untie the child's heart knot afterwards.
Family campuses must beware of
who usually have the most contact with children, except for the parents and elders at home, they are neighbors living in a community, classmates and teachers in the school, etc. Parents should pay more attention to whether their own words may impair their children's self-esteem or produce fear while protecting their children from the words of outsiders.
Qiao Qiao’s mom learned that Qiao Qiao was bullied at school, she immediately took Qiao Qiao to find the teacher, and solved Qiao Qiao’s heart knot. Compared with parents in real life, it is very likely that she ignored the feelings of the child The inability to distinguish the child’s situation leaves the child in an isolated and helpless situation.
Sensitive children should be more protected.
I saw a topic on the Internet a few days ago called "How are those sensitive children growing up?" In my opinion, personality sensitivity is not a child’s weakness. Each child has different characteristics, and sensitivity is also one of their attributes.
Sensitive children are more delicate and more vulnerable. They have a better imagination of the world, so they are more likely to be defeated by reality. If the child is sensitive, parents should be more protective.
Parents have good expectations for their children, and hope that their children will have a smooth and carefree life, but the healthy growth of children needs parents to escort them. Whether in the family or on the campus, only parents are the strongest backing for their children. In order to explode unlimited potential in the process of growth.
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