"I can't finish the homework, call the parents!"
"The characters are not well written, call the parents!"
"The grades are not good, call the parents!"
Recently, a parent in Xuzhou, Jiangsu publicly sent it to the teacher in full view This kind of pennant accuses the teacher of teaching what to do, and is called the first place among parents. He also complained: "If our parents can do everything, what do you need your teacher to do?" Although the video was completely fictitious after investigation, the incident reflected a very serious social problem. There is a problem between parents and teachers. The contradiction is getting worse.
In fact, the growth of children requires the joint efforts of family education and school education, neither of which is indispensable. Children's education is a very subtle matter. Only by doing these two points can we cultivate excellent children.
Teachers impart knowledge, parents raise children, we understand each other more, be more calm, and wait more. As parents, how should we cooperate with teachers? Here are some suggestions for everyone:
1. Actively communicate with teachers and actively cooperate with teachers jobs.
met many parents who often said to me: "Teacher, the child will be handed over to you, hit and scold at will". Although teachers have the responsibility of educating children, education is never a one-sided matter. No matter how good a teacher is, without the cooperation of parents, he cannot teach children well.
We must take the initiative to actively communicate with the child's teacher, take the initiative to introduce the child's characteristics, some advantages and disadvantages in learning, so that the teacher can fully understand the child and pay more attention to his child.
2. If you are not sure about the knowledge, you must ask the teacher in time.
Now that children are exposed to more and more knowledge, it is getting more and more difficult. It is inevitable that there will be some confusion in the process of tutoring children. At this time, parents must not teach children by themselves and pass on the wrong way of thinking to children. At this time, our parents may wish to ask the teacher for advice and let the teacher help explain.
You must remember that knowledge that you are not sure about, or you feel that it is not a good method, do not teach it directly to the child, it is very detrimental to the child’s growth and it is not conducive to the child’s good learning method.
3. Parents must be role models for their children and be their guides.
Every parent has a heart of "looking for a child to become a dragon, and hope for a daughter to become a phoenix" and hope that their children will have a good future.
But remember "what kind of person you want your child to be, what kind of person you want to be". The power of role models in children’s education is enormous. Only when parents continue to correct themselves and improve themselves, children can learn from their parents and strive to improve themselves.
A child is like a seedling. It can take root and sprout if it is well raised, but it is destined to die from an early age.
Education is a very rigorous thing. We must not let our children be indifferent or indulge them, let alone let them make concessions in the name of love and delay their growth.
Wish every child can live in love and care, and every child can have a bright future.
Many "Chinese-style parents" in our country are not good at expressing their love for their children. No matter how strong the parental love is, the children will not be able to feel it. This is meaningless, and even only counterproductive. Only by letting children feel about themselves can they be enthusiastic about learning and have a healthy mind. Our parents must express their love for children in the right way.
