was a parent, we wanted our children to spend their childhood happily and carefree. As the children grow up, in this era of increasingly fierce competition, many parents want The child loses on the starting line", and at the same time, I don’t want my shortcomings and shortcomings to be copied on the child, but enrolled in many interest classes and tutoring classes for the children. Therefore, busyness no longer belongs to adults.
A variety of hobbies and hobbies courses occupy the children's after-school, weekends and holidays. When we find that children have less time to play, we also feel helpless and reluctant; when we see other children make up after class and busy on weekends, We also feel anxious; sometimes we don't know whether the learning of hobbies is for the children or for ourselves. In the end, we can only look forward to the small progress of the children and the small affirmation of success in the future.
Carefree childhood and interest cultivation and learning
First of all, it is unrealistic to expect children to have a carefree childhood. Children, like adults, have joys, angers, sorrows, and rich feelings and emotions. Children are all rich life experiences. When they are satisfied with the joy of "getting", they will definitely be depressed because of "not getting". This is the real life.
Secondly, in the development of interest and learning, children can experience the process of sweat and hard work, and the joy of achieving success through hard work. This is an experience for children, and it can cultivate children’s perseverance and perseverance. the process of. But the premise is that what the child learns is what he is interested in and has the ability to complete.
If the cultivation of interest and learning brings too much burden, too much pressure, or takes up too much time to the child; or whether the child wants to study, what is the meaning of learning, it leads to parental disputes and parent-child relationship If it becomes worse, it will put the cart before the horse, and even if the child likes it, it will not last. How does
do?
1. Respect children's talents
Sometimes we always think that we design and choose the best life for our children, but children always find it difficult to follow our plan, and even show resistance and behavior.
Therefore, when enrolling children in interest classes and tutoring classes, they should follow the child's development law and choose according to the children's good and interesting aspects.
2. In line with the child’s age development
Jean Piaget’s cognitive development theory puts children’s cognitive development into several stages, precisely because children’s cognition is a process of gradual maturity, and when arranging learning for children They need to be in line with their age characteristics, and learning early may backfire and encourage them.
3. Understand the strengths and weaknesses of children
Every child is special but not perfect. Everyone has what they are good at and what they lack, so we need to understand the child’s strengths and weaknesses, which are specific to the child According to the situation, adopt corresponding methods to improve the children's abilities, such as "strengthening strengths and taking weaknesses", "strengthening strengths to supplement weaknesses", "strengthening strengths and avoiding weaknesses" and so on.
4. Help children overcome difficulties
When any learning may encounter difficulties and can’t continue, what parents need to do is to understand their children’s emotions when encountering difficulties, accept and respond to their children’s bad emotions, and then look for them together The crux of the difficulty and solve it together.
In fact, many of the cultivation of interest and the learning of knowledge come from life. Let children explore and observe with a sense of discovery, and assist them to choose 1-2 interests and persist in learning for them. It also gives children plenty of time for outdoor activities and opportunities for active discovery and learning. I believe that the joy of childhood is infinite.
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