After pregnancy, women will inevitably become mentally stressed, especially in the early stages of pregnancy (first trimester), the fetus is unstable, there are too many taboos in life and diet, and all things that cannot harm the fetus, if you can refuse, They will not.
Xiaowen and her husband met through a friend's introduction and got married six months after falling in love. As the romance of the honeymoon period faded, the two successfully became pregnant and ushered in a "good pregnancy".
In the early stages of pregnancy, Xiaowen was tortured and had no appetite. She is particularly sensitive to smell. Her morning sickness response was non-stop, occasionally accompanied by dizziness, headache, physical fatigue and super sleepiness. Had to change my schedule.
One night when she was two months pregnant, her husband hurried home, saying that his grandma had passed away and he had to go back to her hometown for a funeral, and asked Xiaowen to accompany him in filial piety.
How does Xiaowen take care of these things? Her life is not easy, so she just refused. Who knew her husband was crazy on the spot.
"Why are you so hypocritical! My grandmother is so good to me, shouldn't you go as a family member? Why are you so unfilial!" After
learned that Xiaowen was about to fight back, she happened to commit morning sickness Reacted and quickly flushed to the toilet. Backing, she shouted outside the door: If I said no, I would not go. If you don't want children, I will get rid of them now.
Her husband did not speak. After packing, he knocked on the door and went out alone.
After her husband left, Xiaowen felt aggrieved and called her girlfriend to complain. Girlfriend agrees with Xiaowen's behavior. It was not that she was not filial, but that she was treated specially in a special period.
From Xiaowen’s point of view, two months of pregnancy is indeed not suitable for funerals, but this is not because the old man said that the heavy yin will take away the "fetus", but because of the following reasons:
1. There are too many people and the air is not circulating. There were many people at the funeral of
, with loud gongs and drums and limited space. The smoke, firecrackers and dust from the burning banknotes filled the air. The long-term expectations in this environment will not only aggravate the pregnancy reaction, but once the impurities are inhaled into the body, if the fetus is too sensitive, it will easily cause miscarriage and deformity.
2. The overall atmosphere is low, affecting emotions. The overall atmosphere of the
funeral is sad and heavy, and everyone is very depressed. Pregnant women are susceptible to the influence of people around them, leading to a bad mood. In case of fetal gas, it is invisible to the fetus.
3. Running around, tired, unable to keep up with physical strength
The funeral home is very long, and pregnant women cannot afford food. Some funeral procedures are more. Pregnant women will be exhausted from fatigue and crowding. If you fall or hit your abdomen, the added loss is not worth it.
Some elderly people think that the funeral is too dark and not suitable for pregnant women. Except for the funeral, it is best not to go to these four places in the early pregnancy.
1, KTV
Some women are "Maiba" before pregnancy and must rest after pregnancy. The KTV environment is noisy and loud. The hearing of the fetus develops slowly at the beginning of pregnancy, which will seriously affect the hearing development of the child.
2. Sauna
Modern women love beauty. Sauna has become one of the leisure and health care items, but it is really not suitable for pregnant women. The fetus is very sensitive to high temperature in the early stages of pregnancy. High temperature can easily affect the development of the fetal nervous system. The water temperature is higher than the body temperature of the pregnant mother, the greater the damage to the fetal brain cells, the confined space will also increase the risk of hypoxia, and the heat radiation of the sauna will damage the fetus's hearing organs.
3. Mahjong Hall
Some women are "brand fans" and may have to rub them twice after pregnancy. The mahjong hall is closed, the environment is noisy, and there is a lot of smoke inside. Early pregnancy is a critical period for fetal differentiation. Excessive second-hand smoke inhalation by pregnant women can easily cause teratogenicity.
4. Temple
It is good to go to temples to burn incense, worship Buddha, and pray for blessings, but not suitable for pregnant women. First, the temples are located in remote areas, mostly in mountainous areas. Hiking and climbing can easily cause fatigue. Secondly, the temples have a strong fragrance, which can easily cause bad irritation and severe morning sickness to pregnant mothers. Pregnant mothers should pay more attention, especially the substances released by sandalwood, which can easily affect the intellectual development of the fetus.
