Introduction: It is still possible to say that the scholar is indulged; it is not to be said that the woman is indulged!
In traditional feudal society, the status of men and women is very different. If a woman is abandoned by a letter of resignation, it is almost a social death. 's patriarchal ideology has been maintained for thousands of years and has a profound impact on the Chinese people. Although gender discrimination does not exist in modern society, some remote and enclosed areas still have such backward ideas.
The old ideas of the past are constantly being eliminated, new cultures and new ideas are constantly being replaced, and feudal superstitions and old things are often the ideas of the older generation that have persisted for a lifetime. No one wants a girl," this old saying, the vast rural areas still have such a tradition, is there any basis for this?
The meaning of "double top" is
as a common saying is , "one revolver is good, two revolvers are bad, and three revolvers are twisting strange" . What does the Xuanzi stand for, and what does it mean to be good or bad? Everyone has a sunken place on the top of their head. This place is called "spin" . The number of spins on the head can be used as a reference for a person's personality. "Good" means a good personality and is liked by others. In the countryside, the older generation will get to know a child in this way. "Shuangding" refers to a child with two spines on the top of the head.
The traditional view is that a child with a spin on his head has a kind, down-to-earth and hard-working character , and will not have the bad thoughts of opportunism. Such people are often called "good old people" . When they were young, they were well-behaved students in the teacher's eyes, and they were the benchmark among students. They focused on listening to lectures in class, completed their homework carefully after class, and never tried to make trouble or skip class. They were the most assured type of students. In the eyes of parents, children have a plan for self-discipline, and they don't need to be too disciplined. After work, they are often the most trusted by the boss, and they always feel at ease.
Everything has its pros and cons, and so is personality. A spiny child is practical and obedient. At the same time, they also have shortcomings. They tend to follow the rules for a lifetime , always constrain their lives, will not have unusual behaviors, and can complete their work on time. , but they often lack creativity and are not easy to come up with new ideas. just imitates everything, which is relatively conservative and lacks the ability to think.
The two twisted children above their heads often make up for this defect. They have shown many ghost ideas since they were young, active and mischievous, and there are always many new things in their minds . The curious personality makes them explore the mysteries of the world and thus get new answers. , but they are often the most troublesome for teachers. They are naturally unwilling to be bound and unwilling to follow school rules and regulations , but they often have their own methods in learning. After class review may not be serious enough, but exam results are often top-notch of. Children like
are often prone to extremes, "smartness is wronged by cleverness", this kind of people will give people a cunning feeling. Therefore, people tend to be more attentive when dealing with this kind of people, afraid of being deceived. Talking and doing things reveals the feeling of "opportunity", which makes people unable to rest assured of them.
Different children with different head spins have different personalities, why two spin boys are more popular than girls?
Two girls and boys
The previous gender discrimination led to the formation of this concept. The concept of "a woman without talent is a virtue" has continued for many years. It is enough to take care of the children at home, take good care of the children, and take care of housework. Z3z is too smart and won't be liked by others. Women who are gentle and virtuous and honest are more like . This is not the case for boys. In the old days, men were thought to be the masters of the house and the pillars of the family. Be smarter and naughty is not a big deal. Men who start a family should be more adventurous and innovative.
Concluding remarks
"Qi has shore, Xi has pan". The old-fashioned bad habits of lead to such thoughts. In the past, the status of men and women of was not equal to each other. This is an old saying. It is a bit sloppy to determine a person’s life by the number of head spins.It is even more ridiculous to decide on marriage events. The old-fashioned concepts are often the old bad habits. They have been inherited for many years. Many women have been poisoned by this. Modern thinking has progressed, gender equality, and humankind is also constantly improving!
Reference materials: "Book of Songs"
