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"It is better to have no birth than to raise children, and to raise children is better to raise children."
Becoming a parent is a process that each of us needs to go through, and it is also a part of our life Milestones, if the life you have not experienced is incomplete, it is regrettable.
is actually for contemporary women, becoming a parent is a matter that requires "courage", especially one that requires a lot of self-study.
When a parent has a child, the child must be the first thing to consider and do, and the focus of life gradually shifts to the child.
, especially the current social security is not very stable, the safety of children is difficult to guarantee, and parents can only be assured of watching their children in person.
Therefore, whether you are taking your children out to play or going to school, the parents will accompany them, one is to protect the safety of the children, and the other is to avoid unnecessary danger.
And this also leads to a phenomenon, that is, whenever the school is going to school, the traffic around the school is very eye-catching. It can be said that it is "difficult to move." The parents who pick up and drop off their children at
can fully understand this situation. There are children in the family, and this phenomenon will continue from kindergarten to high school, parents can also fully understand.
"Experts" criticized the phenomenon of picking up and dropping off the children, blaming parents for "doting" their children, and parents are also wronged.
Actually, parents picking up and dropping their children to and from school every day has become a customary situation. No matter how big or small the child is, parents are not very relieved that their children go out alone. Both parents and pedestrians understand it very well. After all, our country is too big, there are always places that light cannot illuminate, and there are too many dangerous things for children.
Such as human traffickers hiding around, children who are not going home by themselves, children crossing the road without watching cars, children crossing the road crazy, etc. Parents are always afraid of their children in danger, so they will pick up the children themselves.
And it’s not easy for parents. After the child goes to school, the parent’s work and rest time should follow the child’s work and rest time. Regardless of whether it is windy or rainy, whether it is cold or hot, there are only rest periods on Saturdays and Sundays. Picking up and picking up children in person is to protect the children's safety to the greatest extent.
It’s just that the parents’ heart of loving children is not understood by everyone, but was criticized by a professor: Following half-step in this way will destroy Chinese children sooner or later!
and experts also said: every school time, there will be blockages around the school, cars will not get through at all, and pedestrians can only rely on crowding. This practice will not only affect the normal traffic order, but also easily cause children to be unable to be independent".
The child’s care is not understood, but reprimanded instead. This also makes many parents unable to tell.
Some parents said:
Party A is the uncle: the most important thing is to be afraid of cars, there are too many cars on the road, and children The self-discipline is poor and the quality of the drivers is also uneven. There is only one baby in a family, and I can't afford to hurt it at all!
queer 57: There are too many social instability factors, and parents are worried! Do you have no children in your home? So it’s easy to speak!
Mountain 41: In today’s society, it’s not parents who spoil their children. Guan Jian is caused by too many people and frequent accidents, and there are too many motorized vehicles from urban to rural areas. In terms of social fraud, there are too many bad guys abducting and selling children and women, causing panic. If you don’t pick up or drop off, you are afraid of accidents, so it has become the style of picking up.
Sulfuric Acid Soup: This is not spoiling, but the society does not provide a way for parents to rest assured. The environment where the child goes to and from school alone.
So, can parents’ behavior of "carrying and picking up children" really improve?
Actually, according to the current situation in China, I want parents to let their children go to and from school completely. This situation is unlikely to happen on a large scale.
Because the self-discipline of the masses in our country is not very strong, some electric vehicles and motor vehicles still do not respect the traffic rules, even if the vehicles are controlled, children play It’s easy to forget to obey the traffic rules.
, but now our country has truly achieved the areas where parents do not pick up their children.Only in those remote areas, there are few vehicles in the mountains, and the children are self-reliant and no one is trafficked, so parents can rest assured that their children go to and from school by themselves.
But the parents of children in the city naturally dare not. Therefore, if you want parents to stop picking up their children, this situation is still impossible to achieve at present, because "don’t be afraid of 10,000, just in case", no one wants their own baby Get hurt.
After reading this article, do you think the situation of picking up children can really be improved? Do you rest assured that your child goes to and from school alone? Welcome to leave a message to discuss!
can answer your questions about children's psychological, education, personality and other problems. I hope my suggestions can help everyone, so that every baby can grow up healthy.
