all say that it is easy to have a baby but difficult to raise a baby.
As our children grow up day by day, we are parents, in addition to breaking through the various stages of child feeding and health, we also have to face various challenges in child rearing.
Ability enlightenment, parent-child relationship, rule-making, high emotional intelligence...One level is even more difficult!
Especially after the child can speak, the child's social skills become the focus of parents' attention.
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Parents have had this experience: taking their children to the playground or park in the community, seeing other children having fun together, the children want to join, but they don’t know what to do.
At this time, many parents will give their children an idea and say: "Hello, my name is Tiantian, can I play with you?".
Our observations over the years have found that if the other party is just a child and he is also looking for someone to play with, then this method is often effective.
However, if the other party has more than two children, or a small group, the effect will be greatly reduced. What often happens in
is that the other child either does not respond or verbally says "Yes", but there is no sign of accepting new members in the action. Why is
like this? How can you help your children as adults? We invite teacher Zhong Yu, a game parenting expert, to chat with you.
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When I met my relatives and friends, not only didn't say hello, but also always hid back, so embarrassing adults! At a young age, children always seem to have concerns, and when they are with children of the same age, they are not willing to play together.
There are always mothers complaining that the child grows up, not only looks the same day by day, but also changes in personality. It’s not the same as before and laughed at people, is it too introverted?
In fact, children’s social interactions are regular.
Children gradually like to be alone, which has nothing to do with "introversion".
This shows that when children grow up, both memory and language have been improved, and they have begun to think, which is a normal stage of development that must go through.
Some parents do not understand the law of their children's development, and forcefully push their children from the "backstage" to the "foreground". This is very detrimental to the children's mental health and is a typical facilitator. How does
guide the child correctly and make him open and cheerful? We have all sorted it out for everyone.
