After becoming a parent, everyone seems to be afraid of getting sick, not because they are worried about themselves, but because they are worried that no one will take care of their students, and they are also worried that they will infect the students. In short, anything related to students is the most important thing in the eyes of parents.
Parents don’t actually want anything in return. They just want to exchange sincerity for sincerity . Parents love their children and children are filial to their parents. That’s all. But sometimes, parents may fail to realize such a simple expectation.
"Suddenly I don't want to be so nice to my child." After the parent became positive, he admitted frankly that he raised a white-eyed wolf
During this time, the most discussed thing was probably "Is he positive?" Most people's attitude is actually to take things as they come. It's best if they can advance to the finals. If not, just ask for leave to rest. is calm but also helpless.
But parents are actually a little scared, especially since the students at home are still relatively young. The parents' thinking is very simple. It's okay to feel uncomfortable. They really don't want to infect the students and make them suffer. But some things are not what people want, and whatever they are afraid of will easily happen.
Of course, at this time, everyone will definitely think of the picture of a parent in Jiangsu falling to the ground with a high fever, while the three children were busy cooking, turning a blind eye to the parents. This news also caused quite a stir. The three children have also become negative teaching materials in the eyes of netizens, and many netizens even find it incredible.
But in fact, it is not an isolated incident for a third child to watch his parent faint. Another parent on the Internet also shared a similar experience. This parent even admitted that he suddenly didn’t want to be so nice to his son, and felt like he had raised a white-eyed wolf.
This parent said that despite being careful, he had no choice but to fall victim to the virus. The child's father had to go to work, and he was worried about infecting students and affecting their online classes. Therefore, he stayed in the room to minimize contact with students.
But after all, the parents felt uncomfortable and couldn't help coughing. However, the son said many times that his mother's coughing was too loud, which affected his online classes. Not only that, in the past few days when the parents were happy, the son had hardly asked the parents whether they were uncomfortable, let alone took the initiative to order water or fruit.
Of course, parents can understand this. After all, learning is not a trivial matter, and their son is in the fifth grade of elementary school. His grades have always been very good and he also likes to learn . As for taking care of himself, the parents did not want the students to do it. They just think that the students can be more obedient and take care of themselves.
What really makes parents feel chilling is that during his illness, his son asked his mother many times if he could get up and make lunch for him. The parents also said that he was not feeling well and could not eat. If the students felt hungry, they would boil some water to make noodles, and then let his father cook it when he came back.
But the first day was okay, but the next day his son showed an impatient expression. said he didn’t want to eat instant noodles anymore and wanted his mother to cook for him. It was at this time that the parent felt that he had raised a white-eyed wolf.
It seems that this child has never known how to feel sorry for others. The parents also reflect on themselves, whether they have been too good to their students since they were young, so good that they feel that they should be taken for granted, and so good that they feel that they do not know what gratitude is.
In fact, during this period, we have also seen many children taking care of their parents, some even wearing diapers. They all know that they feel sorry for their parents and know that their parents are uncomfortable, as if they have grown up overnight. But looking at this kind of students who don't know how to be grateful, what is the problem?
Some people think that some children are naturally cold-blooded and have innate personalities. The author believes that this situation must exist. How can we explain that some twins obviously live and eat together, but have very different personalities in the end? But a larger part of the reason may lie in the way parents and students get along.
Some parents are really good to their students. In the process of getting along with students, they always habitually put students first and take students as the center., and then slowly let students develop such a character. If they say that they have changed, it means that parents are too full of love for their students.
There is a word that seems to be very popular now , which is called reverse parenting after 90s. In short, parents show weakness appropriately in the process of getting along with students, and then "praise" . In this process, students' self-care ability is cultivated, and students' sense of responsibility is also cultivated.
The author's message:
No matter whether the problem lies with the parents or the students, in fact, as long as the problem is discovered, it is not too late. Parents still need to adjust their mentality and not really give up on their children.
Instead, adjust your own education methods, find a way to educate children that is more conducive to students' growth, and grasp the degree of getting along with each other. Children are still young, and everything is possible.
topic discussion: Do you think students don’t care about their parents? What is the reason? welcomes comments.
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