has a video on the Internet. The content of the video is that after a mother fell, the three children at home were indifferent. Once this video was released, it left a general discussion among netizens.
However, there was another trend of deliberately falling down in order to test the children, which quietly started to spread, so some people began to fall in front of the children to see how the children would react.
I can't comment on whether these people are right or wrong, but from the perspective of this behavior of testing human nature, they are simply stupid to the extreme.
I remember that around 2015, there was a variety show that tested couples that was very popular. The test process was to use money or best friends to seduce one of the partners to cheat, and then the entire communication process and test results were filmed. Only a handful of people survived the test, and most people fell into it. But no matter what the final test results were, the couples broke up after the test without exception.
Human nature cannot be tested. Once you try it, the whole drama will end.
The breakdown of many originally relatively stable relationships in our daily lives mostly comes from deliberate temptation, that is, "making".
For example, couples go back to test whether each other really loves them, and then make various deliberate actions. You must know that in modern society, it is not easy to meet a person who is in love with you. Even if the relationship is broken, the rift will always exist.
The essence of "making" is low self-esteem.
People who try to test human nature are essentially unconfident in themselves and have a sense of mismatch with what they have. Due to this mismatched inferiority complex, communication between the two people will not be smooth, or they will lack communication skills.
For example, those parents who deliberately fall to test their children's reactions are not confident in their family education , or do not understand education at all, so they use this kind of testing behavior to affirm their own education, but the results are often devastating. The reason is that as parents, they have not taught their children how to deal with this situation. Children are naturally confused when they see their parents fall, and it is normal to be indifferent.
Another example is those who test relatives and friends. This is because they are not confident in their communication skills and personality charm. At the same time, you have communication problems with the other party, so you want to use testing methods to find comfort in your heart. On the surface, it is to test the other person's character, but in fact it is a challenge to human nature. Losing is already a foregone conclusion.
If you really value a relationship, you must observe it in your daily life. If you have a need, take the initiative to see if the other party can satisfy it. The premise of this need is not unreasonable, but your true appeal. If we can get along, we will get together; if we can't get along, we will separate. There is no need to try all kinds of traps to death.
Human nature cannot be tested. As the saying goes, there is no filial son in bedside for a long time, and there is no good wife in a poor family. If you want to know the quality of a cup, the only way is to smash it, but the broken cup slag is useless except to prick your hands. After all, it is no longer the cup you need.
As a human being, you can actually be happy if you are a bit silly. The world of mortals is inherently broken. It is better to be hazy, but it will not be fun if you see it through.
