I just saw a question and answer in Baidu post. After reading it, I was already angry and my stomach hurts . The owner of the post asked if it is normal for a grandfather to kiss his one-year-old granddaughter with his tongue? Her husband said it was normal... What's there to ask? You can tell if it's normal or not by yourself. You also need to ask what you think.
This grandfather's thoughts are no longer simply about loving children. After being discovered by his mother, this grandfather said "I was discovered by your mother." Do you still need to think about this? This is a psychological problem. After all, everyone is familiar with pedophilia.
This mother also felt it was very obscene and found out several times. This is testing your bottom line. If you get angry and make a big fuss at first, he will know to be afraid. No matter how old the child is, you must have a certain level of love for him and know where the bottom line is. If you did not protect her when she was a child, she will have psychological problems when she grows up.
In my opinion, mental illness is more serious than cancer. People always pay too much attention to physical pain and ignore the pain of mental illness. Have you seen those children who ran away from home and passed away? This is the harm of mental deficiency.
There is more than one such thing. After searching the entry, you will find many similar replies below. There is even a grandfather who directly puts his hand into his clothes. In this twisted society and twisted family, you are not qualified to be a parent if you don't help the child. If you encounter this kind of thing, don't be polite and call the police directly. The first time you find it, you forgive him. The second time and the third time. When the child is older, even if he doesn't understand now and you think it's okay, there will still be such a fragment in her mind in the future. Real indifference has no impression.
As a parent, you must learn to teach your children privacy protection. Your negligence may cause your children a lifetime of pain. In addition, children now have precocious psychology and they know a lot. In today's society, there are hints everywhere, so we should pay more attention to this aspect.
Now there is a new type of soft porn, with sexual implications. What is soft porn? It is cloaked in the guise of "legal" and has a side effect of pornography, such as shopping and buying clothes for children. In some sellers' pictures, in order to show a piece of clothing, the model child puts on the clothes and makes suggestive actions. They are ignorant, so what does this imply? Hinting at pedophilia, I would like to remind you all not to post photos of your children on WeChat Moments casually, as you never know where someone will put them.
I don’t know if you have ever seen a kindergarten in China. A female teacher deceived students into giving her to her boyfriend. They didn’t understand anything but knew that it hurt. The parents found out and called the police. If the children knew about privacy protection and could not trust others easily, no matter what their identity, these things would not happen. Does it sound like there is a sense of victim guilt? Yes, this is the helplessness that society brings to people. You can’t change others, you can only change yourself until you can protect yourself.
There is another case of a kindergarten teacher who assaulted multiple male students for many years. Yes, boys, so sexual assault does not refer to girls. You educate your son well, and she educates her daughter well. This is all good. No matter how bad she is, she still respects privacy.
Some parents' view is that "as long as he does not break the law, he will be happy." Then how do you know whether he has broken the law? You will only know if he has committed a crime. So what is the significance of this kind of education method that seems to be liked by all children? If you don't educate your child, his happiness will be the pain of others. Human selfishness cannot blindly take without giving. When you give birth to him or her, you have the obligation to educate them well. Don't always push this responsibility to society.
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