The psychological experiment of children and marshmallows determines the child's attitude towards life.
Experimental told the kindergarten four-year-old child to eat marshmallows. Put the marshmallows on the table, and the children surround the table, form a circle, and stand. You can eat one pill if you eat immediately; you can eat two pills if you eat ten minutes later.
Some children finished eating a candy and left; the other children waited for ten minutes and ate two candy. The experiment is not over. There are also many years of follow-up. After twenty or thirty years of secret observation and recording. The probability is as follows: Most excellent people eat two candies back then; most mediocre people eat one candies back then. The significance of experiments in psychology.
Most people who eat one candy have poor resistance to temptation, but those who eat two candy have stronger restraint. The individual's ability to restrain and resist temptation have a great impact on the advancement of excellence.
Chinese old saying, it depends on the age of three, and it depends on the age of seven. The highlight is the child's ability to restrain and resist temptation. Based on this, speculate on their development as adults. An old Chinese saying: Prime Minister can hold a boat in his stomach . Be calm when facing major events, because of years of restraint and tempering, and cultivating and forming habits; some children are very smart and have a relatively slow temperament. With such qualities, natural outstanding talents, they can become great people if they are cultivated properly.
In life, these types of people are people with poor restraint. 1. People who cannot save money. There are people who are drunk today, and the money is too much, the moonlight clan is the best. 2. People who cannot calmly study. People who usually play around with exams all night, aiming to deal with teachers and get a diploma. 3. Prodigal son. The family has surplus assets and is eager to sell and cash out, not for the sake of the next investment plan and then squandering it. 4. People who frequently change jobs. I didn't use it for a year or two in my work, and I was anxious to change jobs.
Study research likes to talk about "the bench can sit on the cold for ten years", conduct research, talk about craftsman spirit , "Ten years of hardening a sword". When people talk about "if the love lasts for a long time, how can it be together day and night", it talks about restraint and vision, which are closely linked.
Marshmallow experiment is a psychological experiment and an experiment to determine the outlook on life. It is to do multiple-choice questions in two attitudes to life. One is to roar when you see unfairness and take action when it is time to take action. One is to endure the momentary aura to avoid worrying for a hundred days.
chooses willfulness and will show a life attitude of enjoying timely life. Life has no goals, be at ease and be at ease, spend one day and have fun. Get it first, satisfy the present, consider it less for the future, not for the future.
If you choose restraint, you will show a life attitude of self-restraint and regaining etiquette. The target exists in the heart, and the surface is calm. For a better future, choose to restrain current desires and invest resources (money, time, energy) in the long-term interests.
The starting point of life is high and low. If you choose a willful attitude towards life, your life will be destined to go downhill. If you choose a restrained attitude towards life, your life will be destined to be on the rise.
