What should I do if my children always like to play with their mobile phones? Maybe this is a problem for most of us parents!
Actually, I think this issue should be viewed with the original intention.
Children constantly seek sensory stimulation during their growth, and without the company of their parents, they will not be guided correctly. Then electronic products have undoubtedly become the most attractive object to children, and they are often taught without a teacher.
Our childhood was in groups, and the games we played were like jumping rubber bands, hopscotch houses, etc. Watching cartoons was also a very luxurious thing at that time. But material scarcity has not made our childhood lose its color. The parents were probably worried that it was dark, and the children from each family were playing outside and didn’t know that they were going home.
In the era of the Internet, everything is connected, and you can solve all aspects of life without leaving your home. You can travel around the world's famous rivers and ancient sites without going far away, and you can read all Chinese and foreign books in a small space.
Look, in the adult world, electronic products dominate the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and also carry the piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, wine and flowers.
. Imitation is the way children learn on the road to growth. They need to learn from adults to control the things around them. The Internet environment is not good now, and an adult is easily lost, not to mention children who have not achieved their minds.
But understanding is only understanding, but letting it go is impossible. I remember many years ago, I took my nephew who had just graduated from elementary school to develop habits. I let him control his phone because I think the so-called self-discipline is the first word.
is difficult at the beginning. I always write a homework and I unconsciously pick up my phone and start reading it. My approach is to learn the time of Tomato Time, let him design the time schedule and complete it, gradually improve it, and interspersed with "can use your mobile phone" to reward it. The effect is very good, half because the method is simple to execute, step by step, and is more effective.
It was after entering junior high school that his grades rose sharply from the countdown and finally got into a key high school.
For such adolescent child, my purpose is to arrange his or her own study time, as long as he or she does not deviate too much, he or she will not interfere for the time being.
