Classmate posted a WeChat Moments "One is hot and the other is cold, why do you want me to have ice and fire?"
couldn't help asking her what was wrong? It turned out that when she was on a business trip, she saw two children upstairs from afar. She called the two children's names.
My son, who was less than four years old, ran downstairs quickly when he saw her, hugged her, kissed her in the face, and kept saying, "Mom, I miss you so much, why did you come back?" The classmate of
said that he was almost moved and she burst into tears. He hugged his son upstairs. She saw her 7-year-old daughter playing with toys, but she didn't even look at her.
She called her daughter and said that her mother was back. Her daughter said "Oh" lightly.
classmate told me that she didn’t see a child for a week and she didn’t expect that this would be the attitude.
She said that for the two children, the same way of education, her daughter is just not caring. Others say that raising a daughter is a little cotton-padded jacket, but she can't feel it at all.
Her son goes to kindergarten. He will leave some snacks sent by the school every day and say he wants to give it to his mother to taste.
What snacks did he buy outside? After he opened the packaging, he first shared them with everyone around him before eating them. Sometimes he even divided the whole process and didn’t have any of them, but he wouldn’t mind, and he wouldn’t cry or make a fuss.
The older daughter is not good. She doesn't even say anything she has given out at school, and she will not go home after eating them all. The classmate said that if she didn't see other children holding them, she wouldn't know.
Once, a classmate had something to do and asked her colleague to pick her daughter up. When the colleague left, he sent her a photo and said, "I'll take these snacks to your daughter, and see if there is anything she can't eat."
The classmate looked at the picture and saw a large bag of snacks, including beef jerky bread, marshmallows, etc. She thought she would take some home so much.
As a result, her colleague did not send the child upstairs. When she arrived downstairs, she sent a message saying that the child had entered the elevator and she would not go up.
The classmate waited at home for about 10 minutes and didn't wait for the child. She was so scared that she quickly went downstairs to find her. As a result, the child was sitting in their hall eating the bag of snacks. There was not much left in the bag. It seemed that she was planning to go home after finishing her meal.
classmate said that her heart was cold when she saw it. She didn't let the child know that she saw it, so she turned around and went home.
A few minutes after she returned home, the child came home, as if nothing had happened, without mentioning that the aunt had bought her snacks or that she had eaten snacks.
The classmate asked her on purpose, did you not bring you any gifts when your aunt went to pick you up? Her daughter said no.
classmate thought about the child's young, and he refused to say it through.
Her two children eat as well. When they encounter something delicious, their son will put it on and eat vegetables that he doesn't like very much, so that he will eat faster and faster, because they all like to eat later.
She also told her daughter that her younger brother’s method is very good, just like life has hope.
However, her daughter doesn’t know how to listen at all. Every time she eats, she will choose the one she likes the most. In the end, the rest of the food she doesn’t like, and the food becomes slower and slower. Every time the classmate finishes cleaning up the dishes, she still eats on the table alone.
Classmate often tells us, why is the same educational method given birth to a mother, so the same way of education is completely different? I want to know this, too.
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