I am a mother and have been raising children at home for two years. The friends I have been in contact with in the past two years are basically all mothers in the community. This is my life circle.
The topic that cannot be separated from every day is always how much money your husband makes, what brand of clothes, shoes, and toys your children wear, and they all compete in secretly, including the decoration of their homes. I always feel that children can wear clothes and wear them cleanly. Later, in order to integrate into them, I gradually began to pay attention to the brand. I also have other children, otherwise they are not sociable and worried that they will be looked down upon by others.
Some time ago, two mothers who had a good time with me bought a sweeping robot at home. Because I already have an floor washing machine, , I didn’t plan to buy a sweeping robot again. Maybe my ears are too soft, or my self-esteem is at work. In order not to fall behind them, I still bought a sweeping robot. In fact, this money can be saved.
is not just for your own self-esteem, but also for creating an environment for your children to make friends. First of all, mothers have to be in tune with everyone to play together, which is also beneficial to the child's personality development. After all, no one wants their children to be isolated and can only force themselves to solicit themselves.
There should be many mothers like me, and the workplace of life is everywhere. My heart wants to live and act according to my own wishes, but it is necessary to make some changes to the social group.
Maybe I am too superficial, and sometimes I am reflecting myself. Is it necessary to waste my energy on these boring things? Then I thought about it that the child is still young and he is not able to handle the relationship between people independently and can only rely on adults to guide him. So even though I am often reluctant to deal with these headache-inducing interpersonal relationships, I can only compromise for the sake of the child.
