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"Mom is born, grandma raises her, grandma comes to watch regularly!"
Although this is a rumor, it also reflects the current situation of many families.
htmlIn the 1980s and 1990s, many of them were only children, whether they were boys or girls, so when these only children had children, they could choose whether they were taken by their grandmother or grandma?Many times, for the sake of their own feelings, , in order to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mothers usually choose their own mother, that is, the child's grandmother, to take care of the child.
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Junjun is a child raised by his grandma since he was a child. He lived at his grandma's house since he was born.
Because at grandma's house, grandma knows what delicious food to make for her mother. When Junjun can't sleep well at night, grandma will get up in the middle of the night and hug him to coax her to bed, hoping that her mother can have a good sleep. I hope that her mother can have a good mood so that her milk can be rich!
When Junjun was one or two years old, he heard his neighbors say to his grandmother from time to time: Oh, you have been hiding your child for the past two years and you are really old visible to the naked eye. In the past, you didn’t have too much white hair, but now you have half of your head of white hair and a lot of wrinkles on your face!
Grandma smiled and said: Watching the child grow up healthily, these are worth it, and my daughter can also go to work happily and with confidence. All of this is worth it. When people get old, they must make use of their remaining energy and let their children go out to work without any worries!
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But Junjun's father was unwilling to live in grandma's house . despised the dishes made by grandma for being too light and despised that grandma's house was not big enough. So although Junjun lived at grandma's house when he was a child, his father only came over to stay for one or two nights occasionally.
When Junjun went to kindergarten, Dad took Junjun back to on the grounds that the kindergarten near grandma's house was bigger and closer to home. When Junjun returned to grandma's house, his mother had to follow him back to grandma's house!
Junjun often asked his mother to take him back to his grandmother's house on weekends, but mother did not dare to drive, and it was not convenient to take the child with her , and it was not convenient to take a taxi by car, so she would ask her father to drive back.
At this time, my father often makes excuses. Today, the unit has to work overtime and wait for a colleague to invite him to play basketball or drink, and he has no time.
Over time, my mother was too lazy to call Junjun's father. She would occasionally take Junjun back, but because every time I go home, it was very troublesome to pack , and my mother was busy with work.
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One day when Junjun was playing with other children in the community, a child kept talking about his clothes and his toys were bought by his grandma.
It turns out that this kid has always lived with grandma! The child said proudly: My grandma loves me the most!
When Junjun returned home, he suddenly remembered the grandma who cared about her carefully when she was a child, so he ran to the study and asked her father: Dad, why did he live at her grandma's house when she was a child, and when she grew up, she had to live at her grandma's house?
Dad explained to Junjun: You are grandmother’s grandson, you and grandpa’s surname are , and grandma and grandma are the family that are close to each other. Grandma is also called grandma. has the word “outside” and it is definitely not that close!
When you were young, you were ignorant, mainly because your mother was taking care of you, and your mother was close to her grandma, so you went to your grandma's house to live, so you could take care of you better. Now that you are growing up, of course you have to live with your grandma.
Dad was uncomfortable living at grandma's house, feeling that it was not his home after all, and he was not used to eating or living, and he was not used to staying.
This is the difference between being in other people's homes and being yourself. You are getting sensible slowly. Dad also hopes that you will feel more comfortable in your home! Of course Your grandma has only one child, your mother, and the house of grandma is yours in the future...
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Dad's explanation is really intriguing . It was obvious that when my grandma was a child, he pulled Junjun with his shit and urine, but now his father told Junjun that he and grandma were not the same family as his grandma, and that he was not the same family as his grandma.
The hardest time is to let grandma take care of her. When the child grows up, she will play by herself. Then she will go to grandma’s house to make grandma happy. When grandma’s property is a hundred years later, it will have to be left to the child!
is equivalent to grandma fell into . When the child can't say and can't scream, she worked hard to raise the child. When the child grows older, she is old and needs her children to rest assured, the child goes to be filial to grandma.
The property I have worked hard all my life, and in the end I have to give this nephew who has never paid much filial piety to me!
This is actually an improper education for parents. If only children have only one child, in fact, both grandma and grandma are the closest relatives of the child. You must treat equally and treat equally with a bowl of water.
If you live at grandma's house, then you must go around grandma more on weekends. After all, the old man wants to be more lively when he gets old! Never be like Junjun’s father. just wants to take advantage of it, but doesn’t want to work hard.
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