The world of children is different from that of adults. Their world is full of vitality and their world is full of imagination. However, we parents are always used to looking at their world from the perspective of adults and must speak from the perspective of children.
What parents are most accustomed to is "be careful". Indeed, children like to jump up and down and like to climb to high places. They feel that they have conquered this small difficulty. In the eyes of parents, such behavior is full of dangers. Naturally, they will say the three words "be careful", but children are very afraid of these three words.
Instead of saying "be careful", it is better to play with the children, encourage them, teach them and take them to play together. For example, you can say "You should pay attention to people when your eyes are rushing over, and you should stand firm first when others rush over", rather than "be careful".
If children are playing dangerous games, they can say a few more words, "Concentrate and pay attention to the car." Or work with children to overcome dangerous areas, these words will be beneficial to the growth and development of children.
Cultivate children's self-awareness and don't always complain about them. They are still very young and have no idea about many things. Speak to them gently, "Baby, let's try to step over slowly."
also let children learn to express themselves and speak out any difficulties bravely. When children are too young, they are afraid of this society and encourage them to speak out. As long as they can speak, there will be a second and third time. When they encounter similar problems, they will tell their parents.
Novice parents should also adapt to their new roles and grow up with their children.
