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A few days ago, a sister posted a dish cooked by her son who graduated from graduate school and had already started working, and then showed it to several of us friends like a treasure.
Looking at my sister's "proud" look, I felt indescribable. If the child is about 25 years old, just cooking a dish can make my mother so proud, as if she is announcing that my child has finally "independent".
So, it is so important to regard "labor class" as a compulsory course to start in primary school! High scores in study and low skills in life really can't make people happy!
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In fact, when the child is 5 years old, many basic living abilities have been improved. Parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's independence and teaching their children to master basic life skills so that their children can live a more relaxed and happy life.
1. Ability to do housework
Five-year-old children can already complete higher "difficulty" housework, such as washing dishes, washing socks and tidying up toys independently. In the early stage, parents should guide their children how to operate step by step. Don't take it for granted that these tasks are so simple, and do you need to teach them?
In fact, when I guided Dabao at home to wash his socks, I took it for granted that he must have done it. As a result, he found that he just poured a lot of laundry detergent, put the socks in, rub them symbolically, and then took them out, and there was not enough washing; and he didn't know the key points of the socks that needed to be rubbed.
So only when parents take it seriously can the children understand what they should do. How to clean dishes, how to clean socks, how to sort and place toys, etc., and let the child know that he must take responsibility for these housework.
Once he learns to take on what he takes to himself, when he grows up day by day, he will naturally develop a sense of responsibility for society and family.
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2. The ability to interact with people
must let children develop good polite habits, and they can blurt out "Hello", "Thank you", "Sorry" and so on... When going out, say hello to their parents, explain clearly where they are going and who they are playing with; when coming back, tell their parents that they are back, wait... When eating, you know to let the elders sit first, get chopsticks first, etc.... Know how to be grateful for their parents' efforts, cherish the friendship with friends, etc....
In addition, children over 5 years old must be clear about the specific location of their home address, their parents' names, phone numbers, etc. When encountering difficulties outside, you need to seek help from the police. Don't trust strangers easily, don't talk to strangers, don't walk with strangers, etc.... It is very important at critical moments.
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3, gradually cultivating children's "psychological social ability"
WHO interprets psychosocial ability as: it is a ability to effectively deal with various needs and challenges in daily life; it is the ability of individuals to maintain a good psychological state and show adaptive and positive behavior in their mutual relationship with others, society and environment.
means:
First of all, let children gradually understand their own characteristics, cultivate their ability to understand themselves, see their strengths, and face their shortcomings, so as to cultivate an optimistic and sound personality.
Secondly, let children learn to listen and express, know to be tolerant, be able to restrain themselves, abide by fair, reasonable and well-founded handling of problems and conflicts between their friends, try to think from their own perspective, and cultivate good interpersonal skills.
Third, let children learn to relieve mental stress and know how to vent and relax their emotions. Being self-disciplined, not being stubborn, not ridiculed others, not being at the extreme, and knowing to replace aggressive behavior with peaceful methods.
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Every child is an independent individual, and parents cannot take care of their children for the rest of their lives.
Therefore, it is better to teach fish than to teach them. Parents should teach their children to learn basic life skills and master certain housework abilities, so as to cultivate their children's self-confidence, help their children establish an intrinsic value system, and win a brilliant future for their children.
