I am 53 years old this year and don’t want to be too tired. I completed the early retirement procedures eight years ago and went home to enjoy a happy life. The female poster Xiao Hongyu advised me that I was idle and I would have fun with my wife. If I had to retire in the future, the eldest brother could not count on me and could still count on me. When I went to the Western Paradise, the two children could still be companions and discuss and take care of each other if they had something to do.
Hongyu is two years younger than me, 1.70 meters tall, has a shawl, has a well-proportioned figure, and works in the Market Supervision Bureau. When she was a child, she was the "King of Children" in the yard. She was a stingy person by nature and was not afraid of the world. She went to the room to dig a bird's nest in summer, went to the river to fish in winter, and took us to fight with children in other yards, etc. Because of these, she was scolded and beaten by her parents.
When I was in high school, I liked to read Jin Yong martial arts novels, and she liked to read Qiong Yao's romance novels, such as "Deep Love in the Rain", " A Curtain of Dreams ", etc. When I saw the emotional part, I was infected by the protagonist's love and wiped my tears. I was amused by the various pranks of Wei Xiaobao . She thought I was laughing at her, stared at her with swollen eyes, snorted at me, and ran away quickly.
Hongyu's husband is from Industrial and Commercial Bureau . During the class reunion, Hongyu drank a few more drinks and secretly told me that her husband was not good to her. She agreed to marry her husband after her father-in-law agreed to transfer her to the Industrial and Commercial Bureau. The two of them had no real love and shared hobbies, and they couldn't say a few words a day. A few months after the marriage, Hongyu gave birth to a girl.
My parents-in-law came from the countryside, and the feudal concept still exists. They just want to hold their grandson. When Hongyu gave birth to a girl, they all kinds of sarcasm openly and secretly. Hongyu was not welcomed and cried many times. She thought her husband could make decisions for him, but he and his mother were in the same heart. Seeing that his daughter was pitiful, my mother came to serve her confinement and brought her granddaughter to junior high school.
Hongyu couldn't swallow this and called her husband a coward and vowed to have a boy. Unfortunately, at that time, family planning was severely arrested, and if he dared to have a secret, he would be dismissed from public office. Fortunately, I had a couple ten years ago, both of them were only children and could have a second child. That day, I drove by the entrance of the city central hospital and saw Hongyu blocking a taxi from afar.
I asked her to get into the car and asked her that she was sick. She blushed and quickly raised her head and replied readily: "Prepare to have another child, come and get the ring!" I was embarrassed and implicitly said that age is not a problem, right? She smiled and said that the doctor said that there was a 70-year-old woman in the United States who had a son. One sentence made me speechless.
A year later, Hongyu gave birth to a son as he wished. His parents-in-law were overjoyed and wanted to come to serve him in person. Hongyu waved his hand and said no, no, this is my son, I can take care of him by myself. He was admitted to the confinement center of the hospital and paid 10,000 yuan a month. Hongyu didn't even blink and paid directly on his mobile phone.
My husband said he would name his child, and Hongyu said directly that he had to take his surname. My husband was embarrassed and wanted to cry. He said that his parents hoped that you would give birth to a grandson for them. Now, he even changed his surname. How to deal with his ancestors in a hundred years? My husband couldn't resist Hongyu, so he could only nod his head aggrievedly.
The husband has done ideological work to understand his parents. The old couple is older and he is open and can see it. No matter what his grandson's surname is, isn't he still his grandson? When the old couple was in full month, they gave a red envelope of 50,000 yuan. In addition, their husband was trying his best to serve him, which calmed down Hongyu's anger a little.
Hongyu's daughter is about to take the college entrance examination.Hongyu held her baby son as anxious as an ant on a hot pan. Fortunately, her husband picked up her daughter every day, and her mother often came to Hongyu's house to help make three meals. Sometimes Hongyu thought the food he cooked was not delicious, so his mother-in-law quickly bought roast chicken and roast duck to deliver it.
The husband said that his son looked like him when he was a child, but Hongyu said that his son looked like him, and the two of them were extremely rare in their son every day. My daughter is also very nice to her younger brother. After the exam, she holds her younger brother every day and never lets go. The family of four is also very warm.Hongyu still wants to make progress in his work, but his family can't take care of him. His mother-in-law took the initiative to pay and hired the best nanny.
Now, my daughter graduated from college and found a job in Shanghai and started a family with her classmates. Hongyu has been there several times and felt that the couple was loving and loving, so she felt relieved. When she returned home, she focused on taking care of her son who was in the fourth grade of elementary school. She was busy all day long and tutoring her son for homework. When she met someone he didn't know, she wanted to do something. I said that she was menopause and had nowhere to vent, so she could only vent her anger on her son.
The son is a bond, which brings into the relationship between Hongyu and her husband. Sometimes she also understands the difficulty of this man, and she feels ashamed when she thinks of her ruthlessness towards him before. I advised her to know that men are good now, but the family is actually inseparable from men. It’s really difficult for men!
Through Hongyu, I found that as long as the age difference between the two children is large, it will not have much impact on family life. It is nothing more than repeating the previous life. It is all a matter of being familiar with the joy brought to the family, but the joy brought to the second child is something that others cannot understand. It’s a pity that I’m old, otherwise I’ll have another child. Hongyu heard my words and said seriously. It’s time to do it now. You are not as old as 70 years old and eighty years old...
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