"Isn't it just feeding the child? What's the matter?" Tangtang, who was in confinement, recently felt embarrassed because her father-in-law always knocked on the door and entered their room. After saying it a few times, her father-in-law didn't agree, and Tangtang almost felt depressed.
Tangtang and her husband have been married for almost 3 years, and their parents-in-law have been giving birth to them. Finally, this year, a fat boy was added to the family. Naturally, my parents-in-law was so happy that they wanted to see their grandson every moment.
After the child was born, the mother-in-law had been taking care of Tangtang and the child during confinement at home, and Tangtang's husband went out to work. Sometimes, when my mother-in-law is free, she sits in the room and chats with Tangtang for a while. But my father-in-law missed his grandson too, and every time he went straight to his daughter-in-law's house to see his grandson, and he didn't even knock on the door. On several occasions, Tangtang was feeding the child, and her father-in-law suddenly came in, making Tangtang very embarrassed. Sometimes, the child was so hungry that he cried, Tangtang was anxious to feed the child. Her father-in-law was still sitting there without a trace, and had no intention of leaving.
Tangtang couldn't bear it anymore and told her husband that she hoped her husband would communicate with his father, but her husband didn't care and thought it was no big deal, so she even advised Tangtang not to think too much.
In the past, many mothers in rural areas, whether at home or in the fields, they started feeding their children whenever they were hungry. Even if there was a man present next to them, they felt that it was no big deal.
However, with the continuous progress of social civilization, many mothers think that breastfeeding is a privacy act. Even if the child is hungry, it has become a bad custom to lift up clothes and feed them casually in public.
If there are children at home and families of the opposite sex do not knock on the door when their mother feeds them, they will indeed make the mother very embarrassed. In addition, most mothers have postpartum depression after giving birth. If the mother is in a depressed mood, it will directly affect the secretion of milk.
suggests that whether it is a father-in-law or mother-in-law, when entering the room of his son and daughter-in-law, remember to knock on the door. If there is no special thing, try not to enter the room of his son or daughter-in-law. If you really miss your child, just take it out and take a look.
