Hello everyone, I am Dew Drawing Dream, a cluttered thought-provoking person with unclear minds, welcome to my life!
The four words simple and rough blurted out when criticizing my child a few days ago. They are the best interpretation of my life with my children in the past three years and the most painful understanding.
is simple and crude, is it effective?
html During the 1 month of confinement, she was very impatient with a baby. She kept crying. I didn’t know why, I was anxious to yell at her. My mother hugged the baby and asked me to rest. At that time, I didn’t know that the child could only express his needs by crying, but he didn’t learn any parenting knowledge during pregnancy. So much so that I would only stop her crying by feeding.When the child was about 4 months old, it was the Spring Festival, and it happened to be YQ again. I could only take care of the child alone. I don’t know how I spent every day. When the child cried, I was anxious. If I couldn’t coax it like this, I would be unhappy. Why was she so harsh? I pinched myself angrily, and later I grabbed the child’s hand hard, and there was no more cruel mother than me.
It’s all tears to think about it
As the child grows up, I also came into contact with some parenting knowledge intermittently, solving many problems on the road of parenting, such as painless weaning and getting rid of diapers naturally. At that stage, I had a great sense of accomplishment, but sometimes I still couldn’t control my emotions and yelled at the child.
The first time I hit the child was about a week and a half, and I really said that I raised my hands for the first time and countless times. I am the one who yells that I can't beat and scold the child but can't do it. Especially after my partner went to another place for about two weeks, my child looked like he was almost two weeks old. My sinful hand was getting more and more uncontrollable. I don't know how my girl endured it.
Sorry, I hope it doesn't matter if I can get it
After that, I started recording my life on the headlines. I saw the collapse of many people, the self-healing of many people, and the gentleness of many people. I was also infected by the practices and ideas of my friends, and I was slowly cured and changed slowly. Thank you for meeting us.
Simple and crude is the most direct way to vent, but it cannot solve the problem. When the child was young, I grabbed her hand hard, and so far she still pinched me reflexively, especially when she was sleeping, if I didn’t pinched, I couldn’t fall asleep peacefully.
May our little babies all have gentle mothers
Finally, I hope you all don’t be as cruel as me, learn more about parenting knowledge, it’s best not to take care of the children alone all day long, it really tests a person’s patience and emotional regulation ability.
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