is precisely because of lack of experience that no one has taken any detours.
But when I look back and look around in the past three years after I have a child, my home is becoming increasingly messy and my economy is becoming increasingly tight. I find that some things are really not worth investing in, but some places that should be invested have been making do with it.
For example, if you want to share the 4 categories next, it will never be the current situation. You will use this to remind new mothers not to follow my old path again.
. The extra preparations before the baby was born ① The seemingly comprehensive waiting package
From the moment I found out there was a child, the whole family was preparing for this upcoming little life, especially the expectant mother, everything was fine.
is even afraid of missing out, so he repeatedly did his homework online. In the end, he learned from other bloggers and prepared a lot of things. After the child was born, he found that few could be used. After all, I realized that I was trapped in the marketing routines of all parties.
②A variety of free gift categories
Speaking of free gifts, from the moment there was a baby, I was surrounded by various places at the entrance of the hospital.
Some people are given prenatal checkup bags, some are given child supplies, such as bowls, bibs, etc. They think that anyway, it doesn’t take much trouble for the child to use, and they will basically cooperate. When using
, you will find these things. Either there are big advertisements printed on it, or the quality is so poor that you can smell the pungent smell when you tear open the plastic bag. You won’t feel at ease if you let it be used by your children.
There are also milk powder, waist stools, etc. sent by various infant brands. They seem to be of high value and usefulness, but they also face poor quality and inappropriateness, and eventually become garbage.
instead of such a result, it is better not to do so directly.
③Breast pumps, milk storage and various breastfeeding peripheral products
I don’t know when it started, breast pumps and peripheral products have also become must-haves for expectant mothers. However, first, the most convenient way to breastfeed is to feed yourself. Second, if you follow the first item, you will not be able to use this thing before taking before taking . Third, even if you use it, a breast pump is enough, don’t think about saving milk. I have seen too many people around, including me, in order to store milk, I also bought a small refrigerator, but in the end, I saved up a refrigerator for my milk. When I was given to my children, I felt it was not fresh, not to mention that many children had diarrhea after drinking frozen milk. In the end, my energy was used, my money wasted, and my milk was thrown away. 2. utensils for excessive grass planting during confinement ①Urch heaters, water heaters, etc., only use temporary equipment After the child is born, the most likely period to be planted is confinement period , especially for mothers who live in confinement centers. has a large part of the factors that stem from lack of experience in taking care of newborns. Therefore, instant-heating water heater , milk warmer, bottle disinfection machine, etc. for brewing milk powder have become the "standard configuration" that mothers want to move home one after another. Can these things be useful? Judging from the experience of people who have experienced it, it has usefulness, but the time it takes is very short. Instead of buying these various utensils that have been idle after only a few months, it is better to calm down and think about whether there are any alternative products at home. For example, can instant water heaters and milk warmers be replaced with constant temperature kettle? Can you try to dry the bottle with boiling water and also have an instant drying effect? I didn’t know anything before. I came back with a bunch of things planted, and when my child was less than one year old, all of them were idle. In the end, I found that the one I used the most and longest was the constant temperature kettle I used before. may also be the constant temperature kettle I chose at that time and could adjust the temperature, so it is very convenient whether it is brewing milk powder for children or drinking water and tea for adults. ②Dark and care supplies Not to mention how much you have prepared, buy free items in the later stage and visit by friends. These may be things that can be received at high frequency. My child’s toiletries are no exaggeration, but three years have passed and they have not been used up.The same is true for and cotton soft towel . Frequent cleaning during confinement is a bit costly. At that time, I had no experience. When I replenished the inventory, I calculated the dosage for half a year based on the dosage during confinement, so I still have it now. All of these things become a burden after planting grass. If you use it, it will expire immediately, and it will be a pity to throw it away. ① Cars, planes, dolls, etc. To be honest, I have never planned the toys for children. I just thought it was fun, so I bought one for him. If I encountered expensive ones and exceeded the budget, I would find a replacement. In the end, there were so many toys in the house that were flooded, but not many were complete. and count them carefully. The toys that are completely playable are still the most expensive. So, if I do it again, I will definitely streamline the number of toys. Improve the quality of toys. ②Light-type toys The elderly and children are the easiest to be attracted by this type of toy. The colorful light is also accompanied by vibrant music, and some movements and running and jumping are enough to attract children's attention. But you ask me, are this kind of toys worth buying? My answer is to be determined not to buy it. Not to mention that it is basically very cheap. The question of whether the material is safe or not is, the color flashing lights and the rough horn sounds are not good for children's hearing and visual development. ③Building class If you want to buy it, buy building class, such as building blocks and magnetic pieces. Children can basically play with them from less than one year old to six or seven years old. This type of toy can also develop children's thinking ability and spatial imagination well. Of course, don’t try to buy cheap ones, after all, things that can accompany your children for many years are worth investing in. ④Children's car Others have it, and my child also needs it. On the baby car, it is easiest to look at the mountain high, and buy a lot of cars of the same type. In the end, I found that the children often use those few. When my child was a child, my parents prepared two baby strollers on both sides. Later, I thought it was convenient to go out with a magic weapon for walking the baby, so I bought another one, and then I saw that the baby could step on the small tricycle and exercise, so I bought it again. Several cars are placed at home, and only one is commonly used. As for the others, they occupy the space at home, I just want to deal with it as soon as possible. ①Bottle As long as children don’t drink milk well, they will look for the cause on the bottle. This is a common problem for new mothers. Therefore, the child's baby bottles, such as ppsu, glass material, domestic, imported, drinking water, milk, etc., were prepared, and eventually they all became idle. ②Water cup 00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 cups are not as good as other utensils, and once used, they cannot be given away. Instead of buying various types of cups, it is better to choose cups that can change their heads. Even if you suspect that the cups are causing the child to not drink water, you only need to change their heads and don’t invest too much. ③Shoes and clothes Speaking of clothes and shoes, children grow very fast. It is really not advisable to have too many clothes of the same season and size. Three or four bodies are enough in one season. No matter how many, some are already small before they are on the body. ④Crib Every mother has the desire to develop a child's independence, but it is very difficult to practice. For example, I bought a crib because I felt it was troublesome and my parents felt that my children were cold. In the end, there were many people who reselled 99 new or even brand new ones. Speaking of this, many people buy cribs because the bed is squeezed and they are afraid of pressing the child. If this is the case, they should buy a large bed splicing bed, so that it will not be crowded and they will not be worried about the child turning down from under their feet. ①Toys To be honest, when children were young, toys had not accumulated so many toys so far, and they did not notice the problem of children's toy storage. Later, I realized that toys affect the cleanliness of the home, and I grew up immediately with the baby. I won’t be able to play with it after a long time. I just deal with the toys and felt that it was not worth investing in toy storage. In the end, this mentality is incomparable to infinite forbearance and slippers. ninja is messy and compromises with chaos. Adults can compromise and chaos, so children naturally don’t have the habit of cleaning up. If I can start over, I would choose to choose a toy storage cabinet as soon as my child is born. Whether it is a childlike storage or a practical storage cabinet, I will never make do with it. ②Book If I do it again, I will never underestimate the number of books I have in my children, nor will I underestimate the storage of books. When you reach the age of two or three, your child can memorize a simple picture book in two or three days on average. The speed of reading determines the number of books. If there is no systematic planning and storage, then books are thrown everywhere on the bed, bedside table, floor, and coffee table at home. In this case, you should consider the book storage issue when decorating, or buy a reading corner for your children in the later stage. On the one hand, it can create a better reading atmosphere, and on the other hand, it can also develop the good habit of centralized storage and independent access for children. ③Clothes Thinking about the child’s clothes being so big, there is no need to leave a special storage area, and two drawers are completely done. To be honest, I thought so before, but as the child grows up day by day, the drawer is obviously not enough, and then children's bed and on the bay window, it becomes a pile of children's clothes. The family was swallowed up a little bit by bit because of this, and there was no way to start. In fact, if the child does not have a separate wardrobe, he should also think about splitting a piece of the adult wardrobe for the child. is the drawer storage box plan. The original layout remains unchanged. After hanging the child's clothes, use the drawer storage box to flexibly layout according to the height. This way, it can not only maximize space utilization in the smallest space, but also classify children's clothes through the drawer storage box, saving mothers' time to search. . Unplanned messy toys . Multiple repetitive utensils . The most inconspicuous but directly affects the neatness of the home
