Recently, a mother from Heilongjiang shared a video of "reverse parenting" on the Internet, which attracted heated discussion among netizens. The video content is that her 3-year-old daughter insists on wearing a thin princess dress in 0℃ weather, and said reasonably, "The princess in the animation is in a cold place." The mother thought about letting her daughter experience the taste of the princess herself, and followed her and kept asking "Is it cold or not".
reverse education model can be said to be an exploration of the parenting model, which leaves a profound impact on the child by allowing children to experience it personally. In the past, parents basically preached educational parenting, while now parents are constantly exploring new methods for parenting . Especially when the post-90s generation became parents, the rebellion and crying of children when they were young basically did not work for them, because they had experienced that period of time themselves and knew deeply what their children wanted, so they developed a state of shielding their children's temper.
, Wuhan, Hubei, an eight and a half-year-old boy was addicted to games and could not extricate himself. He even proposed to take a break from school to play games. So his parents "take the trick" and formulated a strict game-playing plan for him: he played for 16 hours a day, and also reviewed the game's record, and ate three meals on time, which was out of date. At first, the child was very happy, but in less than a long time, the child could not bear it.
My daughter always delayed her life when she went to school. In order to help her completely change her bad habits, her mother used her "trump card". One morning, when I was about to send my daughter to school, I slowly and intentionally slowed down my movements, pretending to change my clothes constantly, making my daughter who was waiting cry.
In the supermarket, the child saw the toy and asked him to buy it. The parents disagreed and the child immediately started rolling around. He originally thought that the current parents were the same as before, either taking the child away or following the child. Unexpectedly, the current parents actually took out their mobile phones and started playing, selectively blocking the child's crying. After a while, the child was tired and naturally followed the parents to leave the mall. Similar to this kind of scenario, it is everywhere today.
The frequent emergence of reverse education and selective blocking education shows that the openness of our society is constantly expanding, and people's thinking is also undergoing some invisible changes, which are the product of the development of the times. Today, the new educational model that is different from the traditional educational model is the active exploration of the parenting model by the younger generation, and is an attribute that the younger generation comes with. The parenting model will inevitably change with the development of the times and social progress, and will have its unique characteristics at every stage.
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