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Filial piety has always been a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but now many people regard filial piety as their children's obligation. In fact, from the perspective of legal provisions, children have the obligation to support their parents, but filial piety is a higher moral requirement and not an obligation.
There is no hatred for no reason in the world, and there is no love for no reason.
Children's filial piety to their parents should be a kind of gratitude from the heart. This gratitude comes from the love, education and care of their children.
When I was young, I felt that filial piety was a natural thing. I only realized when I was old that it was necessary to let my children be filial to me, which was very realistic.
1: Do your responsibilities as parents
Some time ago, there was such a news report that a couple abandoned their children since childhood and grew up in their own adoptive parents' home. Now that the child is adult, the biological parents have found the child again, hoping that the child can be filial.
But the child is unwilling to recognize his biological parents, let alone be filial to them.
This couple feels wronged. They think they have given their children life and brought their children to this world through endless hardships. It is their duty for children to be filial to them. But they forgot that they were born to be unkind and that they had not fulfilled their responsibilities. What qualifications do they have to demand filial piety of their children?
The feelings between people are mutual. Only when parents raise their children with all their heart and do their duty as parents can their children have deep gratitude and attachment to their parents. They do not need their parents to speak, and they will serve them with all their heart.
If you want your children to be filial to you when you get old, then you must do what you should do first.
2: Children have their own survival pressure, and they should be understood and considerate
Filial piety is not just a verbal statement, it requires real money and a certain cost. Many times, children do not want to be filial, but they do not have the ability.
This is the real thing about filial piety.
Everyone knows that Chenghuan's parents is filial, but they have to work. Everyone knows that providing good living conditions to their parents is filial, but they can't afford it.
Parents can understand their children's difficulties, and filial piety cannot be compared.
Children are really filial to you, you will definitely be able to feel it.
Maybe they can't be by your side all the time, but they won't forget to call to care about your current situation. Maybe they can't give you a good life, but they give you the best care within their abilities.
This is also a kind of filial piety.
3: Don’t let yourself become a burden for your children
There is such a case in the TV series " Bottom Line ".
A pair of siblings came to court to sue. The brother asked to inherit the property under his mother's name, but the sister held his mother's will. My brother is unfilial to her mother. She is willing to take care of her mother for the rest of her life, and the price is to leave all the property to herself.
The brother must be an unfilial son, but in addition to his own sense of morality and responsibility, how much is the filial piety of his sister because of his own sense of morality and responsibility? This is the reality of filial piety. Although such words are cruel to say, this is a naked reality.
If the mother does not agree to leave the house to her sister, will the sister take care of her mother willingly? uncertain.
If you want your children to be filial to you and be better to you, your financial conditions are a big factor. It’s not said that you can subsidize your children’s lives, but at least don’t become a burden to your children. Have your own financial income, so that your children can be easier when they are filial to you.
The elderly hope that their children can be filial, but their children have their own lives after all, and it is not so realistic to rely entirely on their children to support their elderly care. Therefore, you should make more plans when you are young to ensure your later years of life.
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