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Xiujuan was born in 2000. She failed the college entrance examination and went out to work and met her husband. She got married and had children not long after she met her!
The pregnancy entered the late stage of pregnancy. Xiujuan originally wanted to let her husband accompany her for delivery, but Xiujuan's mother was a sensible person. She told Xiujuan that when a woman gave birth, she had blood and urine, and she looked dirty and disgusting. It would be best not to let your husband go in!
Xiujuan became sensible when she heard her mother say this, so she hurriedly checked online to see what it was like when giving birth?
As a result, I saw that many mothers shared their childbirth experience online, saying that had to take off their pants when going to the delivery room to give birth, and lying naked on the delivery bed, so that it was convenient for giving birth.
There is also a mother who said that when she gave birth to a child, the male doctor was anesthetized by , and was particularly embarrassed at the time!
There is also a mother who said she was a little constipated when she was pregnant. As a result, when she gave birth, all the constipated defecation was pulled out with the child. She smelled the stench, but the medical staff were all indifferent to . I really admire those midwives and doctors!
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Xiujuan saw that this had already given up the idea of letting her husband accompany her for birth. Unexpectedly, Xiujuan's sister-in-law also sent her a video at this time.
This video tells about . After the husband accompanied the child, he proposed to sleep in separate rooms. . After a year, his relationship broke down and divorced. My husband said: . When I recall the way you gave birth, I feel scared. I feel disgusted when I see you!
even scared Xiujuan, so she told her husband that you don’t need to accompany you to to . You need to disinfect and do what you want to do? You can wait outside for the first time to see the child.
Xiujuan waited for the moment of launching with anxiety. Sure enough, she went to the hospital and felt unbearable pain and was in a hurry. Several embarrassing things happened, which made her sigh: The moment she gave birth to a baby, she lost her dignity from the moment she entered the delivery room and took off her pants. Fortunately, her husband was not allowed to accompany her to give birth!
When giving birth, there were several particularly embarrassing things, and even sharing them with my husband
The first embarrassing thing: Internal examination
When we are giving birth, doctors and midwives must know how many fingers we have opened the cervix.
The "few fingers" are actually determined through internal examination. During internal examination, nurses usually wear gloves and use their index fingers and middle fingers to estimate how many centimeters of the cervix are opened!
opens three centimeters and three fingers, and five fingers are opened after 5 centimeters!
For example, if is turned on for three centimeters, you can usually get anesthesia and perform painless delivery !
is about 8 cm and you have to enter the delivery room as soon as possible because the child is about to be born.
The second embarrassing thing: skin preparation
The so-called "skin preparation", literally understands it to prepare the skin. Preparing the skin means exposing the skin naked, because when a child is born, if the hair on the skin is too thick, it will block the doctor's view, and it may also lead to bacterial contamination.
So before giving birth, all the hair on the skin should be cleaned to expose the skin. Because it is a special part, it is also embarrassing when preparing the skin.
The third embarrassing thing: When you have anesthesia, you need to get anesthesia when you have a painless childbirth. In , most of the anesthesia department are male doctors . Because surgery is sometimes followed in the anesthesia department, the intensity of work is also relatively high.
. Men have better physical strength and energy than women, so most of the anesthesia departments are male doctors.
If it is a caesarean section, the mother will have empty lower body during the anesthesia and only cover one sheet. It is embarrassing for the male doctor to come over for anesthesia.
The fourth embarrassing thing: when giving birth, stiletto and urinate
Because the uterus, our bladder and rectum are neighbors, it is easy to pee and urinate together when giving birth, which is really embarrassing.
While the doctor asked you to use force, you found that the ones you pulled out with force actually contained shit and urine.
midwife and doctor who delivered the baby are also commonplace for this situation , so my mother feels not embarrassed.
So when giving birth, it is indeed a bit bloody and disgusting scene. It may be better if your husband is not allowed to accompany him to give birth at this time, especially for some people who are bleeding. It is best for young and ignorant husbands not to let him accompany him to give birth.
Did you let your husband accompany you to give birth when you gave birth?
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