Yu Linmeng
Netizen question: Family education mainly cultivates children to become adults or become talents?
reply: Human education should start with teaching children to be a human being , and can only become successful after is educated.
Life is given the natural material combination form of reproductive ability + growth cycle + a small part of damage self-healing function . All natural life must adapt to the natural living environment in the way of passive adaptation + active request for . Plant absorbs water-soluble microminerals from natural substances combined with photosynthesis to produce life nutrients, animal feeds directly or indirectly on plants, microorganisms board in plants or animals... Natural life quietly forms the " ecological food chain " with relatively balanced stability .
human , a social viviparous mammal in the natural life system with the highest comprehensive IQ, the slowest growth and the strongest growth plasticity, is also the only animal group in the natural life system that has the ability to create living consumption materials through active labor according to the needs of independent survival, domestication and sowing plants, animal husbandry and fishery that tame captive animals, mining and processing to make production labor industrial and assisting humans to overcome diseases, medicine industry that assists children in learning and growth ... active labor creation has become the fundamental symbol that distinguishes humans from other natural life. Of course, modern humans are also the most complex mammals that are bred in intergenerational intergenerational ways. Two genders + relative fixed spouse of marriage + long pregnancy + long breastfeeding + long raising period + many survival skills that need to be learned. After entering the era of civilized cooperative survival, marriage and family have become the basis for humans to complete intergenerational reproduction.
Lu Xunxian·Hometown: "In the haze, I saw a green sandy land by the sea, and a golden full moon hung in the deep blue sky above. I think: Hope is nothing, nothing. This is just like the road on the ground; In fact, there is no road on the ground, and more people walk, it becomes the road ." Indeed, as in the beginning of human beings, like other natural life, they completely rely on the natural environment to survive, and there has never been any division of labor in production and labor, let alone any group survival civilization needs to be taught to children. All children must master the skills of group division of labor and cooperation in the process of living with their elders.
Civilization is a collection of humans' social survival experiences that humans have refined and collected the forms + traits + functions of specific real matter into abstract symbols + pronunciation + meaning in the long process of life practice, thus forming a collection of abstract social survival experiences unique to humans, material entity - material use - abstract characters [including meaning + pronunciation] - civilization achievements . Therefore, the evolution of human communities living in different environments has formed thousands of systematic civilization achievements. In order to pass on the formed civilization survival wisdom from generation to generation, human society has formed the most complete system of group survival skills inheritance in the natural life system - Education . So, why do we say that human education should start with teaching children to be a human being , and can only become a successful after educates children to become adults?
Human education begins with teaching children to be a human being
Sima Guang "Zizhi Tongjian" Volume 1 "Zhou Ji": " Talent is the resource of virtue; virtue is the commander of talent ." It means that talent is the basis of virtue, and virtue is the commander of talent. Sima Guang also divided talents into four categories according to the different compositions of talent and virtue: "A saint is called a saint, a fool is a fool, a virtue is superior to talent and virtue is called a gentleman, and a talent is superior to virtue is called a villain." He also put forward a thought-provoking view: "If you cannot get a saint or a gentleman and give it to him, it is better to get a fool than to get a villain." Therefore, Sima Guang's talent thinking is based on virtue. When hiring people, you should first seek virtue. If you cannot achieve both talent and virtue, you should rather give up talent and gain virtue." Sima Guang believes that the harm to society by talented people who are more talented and virtuous is far more serious than that of a person who is not talented and virtuous.
Jihai two poems (one of them)
The map of the country of Zeguo enters the war, what is the plan for the people to live in the world?
Don’t talk about being a marquis because of your own success. is a general who has achieved success and has been undone. .
vernacular translation :
The rich waters and rivers have been painted into the war map, and the people want to harvest firewood and mow grass but cannot live.
Please stop mentioning the matter of being a marquis. How many soldiers will sacrifice their lives after a general’s success!
Bai Qi, Historical generals during the Warring States Period, and outstanding military strategists. However, the nickname given to him by later generations, " people slaughtering ". According to incomplete statistics, a total of 2 million people were killed in the entire Warring States period, and Bai Qi killed one million. According to nearly half, Changping Battle killed 400,000 surrendered Zhao army, which is unprecedented. Han Xin , Western Han founding heroes and military strategists, were evaluated by Liu Bang as one of the three heroes under his command. Later generations called it " Three Heroes of the Han Dynasty " and a representative figure of the ancient military idea "military power strategist". Later generations regarded it as " Soldier Immortal " and "Shen Zheng". However, when Han Xin pacified the princes of all sides, more than one million soldiers were killed and injured by his own and the enemy. In addition, the treacherous minister who accelerated the demise of the Qin Dynasty Zhao Gao , the treacherous minister who pursued the policy of cede land + sanction + tribute tribute Qin Hui , the greedy Heshen , the treacherous man who was greedy and could compete with the country, the Heshen , the Wang Jingwei , the treacherous man who pursued the peace policy of cede land + sacred surrender + tribute tribute, Wang Jingwei , the history of the Chinese nation was frozen on the pillar of shame.
The cutting range of swords is within 2 meters, the range of bows and arrows is tens of meters, the effective range of guns is hundreds of meters, the effective range of cannons is tens of kilometers, the effective range of missiles and can reach tens of thousands of kilometers... The weapons made by humans have both defensive and offensive , and the people who determine their actual purpose are people. Similarly, knowledge is like a weapon to arm the mind. Whether knowledge ultimately serves human development and progress or harms humans depends entirely on the person who uses it. For example, those who evade taxes and evade taxes are all cultural people, those who corruption are also powerful and educated people, and there are no fools among all types of criminals.
" Analects of Confucius " said: "Disciples are filial when they enter, and when they leave, they are younger than their elders (same brotherly love), be cautious and trustworthy, love the people and be kind. If you have the strength to do it, you should learn literature." vernacular translation : Confucius said: "Disciples can respect their parents at home, respect teachers and elders outside, be rigorous in dealing with things, be honest and trustworthy, be full of love for others, and be close to be kind people. If you have the strength to do this, you will learn literature (literature knowledge)."
Human babies must eat and drink as soon as they are born, and children must consciously control their bodies about 6 months old. , Children about 1 year old will start practicing upright walking and imitating human social language, children after 3 years old will gradually be able to handle life affairs such as eating, drinking, and slaughter by themselves, children after 5 years old can try to work like adults, and at the age of 15 [According to the different judicial definitions of various countries, the legal age of adults in the world ranges from 15 to 21 years old. my country stipulates that people with normal physical strength and intellectual development are fully civil adults] In the future, everyone can do it according to their own will for many periods... Every human child starts to learn from being a human being, and can independently handle the basic physiological activities of life before starting to learn to do things.
Be a person first and then do things, cultivate virtue first and then cultivate karma . Man is the creator of all human social affairs, and only where human activities can there be human social labor creation. In human society, no matter what historical era or nation, being a human being is the basis for all interpersonal division of labor and cooperation. People with good connections and people with good connections can only do cool labor obediently. Because everything on the earth needs to be shined by the sun to present exquisite colors, and every talented person needs to be discovered by "Bo Le".
" is born in distress, dies in Anle "
Shun is published in the acres, Fu said is placed between the buildings, Jiaoge is placed in the fish salt, Guan Yiwu is placed in the scholars, Sun Shuao is placed in the sea, Baili Xi is placed in the city.Therefore, when God is about to give a great responsibility to a man, he must first suffer his mind and mind, exhaust his muscles and bones, starve his body, and be empty and useless. He will do what he does. Therefore, he will move his heart and endure his nature and will make it easier for him to be unable to do so.
People will always pass, and then they can change, trap themselves in their hearts, weigh themselves in their thoughts, and then do it; they will be conscientious in their colors, and then they will be metaphorical. When you enter, you cannot get away from the family, and when you leave, you are invincible with foreign patients. The country will always die, and then you will know that you are born in trouble and die in peace.
Shun, Fu Shuo, Jiao Ge, Guan Yiwu, Sun Shuao, Baili Xi are all indispensable talents on the rise of Qin . However, their talents did not naturally help Qin develop, but were able to display their talents after the king discovered them. Today, although the alternative recommendation of academic education has become the basis for talent selection in human society, the selection of talents in any modern human society must go through the interview process. Therefore, people with poor interpersonal social skills and poor human affairs usually do not have the opportunity to enter relatively better career positions in human society; people who are greedy by nature and forget their righteousness when they see profits usually cannot " starts and ends well ". Therefore, human education should start with teaching children to be a human being , and can only become a successful person after is educated.
Neighborhood mission: Become a sparring and consultant on the road to growth of children.
Vision of nurturing neighbors: Let there be no difficult-to-bred young people and no difficult-to-raising old people in the world.
The growth of children is like a century-old tree. It requires experiencing storms, selfless companionship from the family, and earnest teaching from schools and society. Educate neighbors: Explore the use of neighborhood friendship to drive social harmony, promote social moral education, and promote everyone's healthy and happy growth, in order to "tailor" children's growth plans with parents and build an educational service ecosystem that helps community neighbors.
