When I watched a growth program some time ago, I found that in my infancy, there is a type of baby that is a high-demand baby. They have been very sensitive since childhood and need the company and care of their parents.
Simply put, they are crying and are very clingy. There is also a type of baby who acts even more dull. They don't like to cry, they are not sensitive to injections, and they are not afraid to meet strangers.
In fact, the same is true for us as adults.
Some people are very sensitive in life. A small thing can also cause fluctuations in their hearts, their emotions fluctuate greatly, and they are prone to falling into negative emotions.
Some people also act more insensitivity. They will not take small things to heart, and it is difficult for them to fall into negative emotions if there is something to do. More importantly, they are better at self-regulation.
We all want to be the second type of person, and a life with insensitivity seems to be easier. But is insensitivity really the key?
When I finished reading Junichi Watanabe "Insensitivity", I found that the insensitivity of adults mainly depends on whether they are strong enough in their hearts.
A person with a strong heart can handle the troubles they encounter in their lives. Emotional stability is their basic cultivation. Unlike people who only have insensitivity, they treat people around them more gentle and respect them.
So, if you observe life, you will find that a person with a strong heart often does not say self-pity.
Hot inner strength, what is strong?
The most basic point is to have confidence in yourself and not underestimate yourself. I have a tenacity in my body, ignore the suffering and try my best to do what I can do.
I like Haruki Murakami said:
"My life is mine, your life is yours. As long as you know what you are looking for, just live according to your own wishes. What others say has nothing to do with you."
The mountains are high and the waters are far away, and there is still a long way to go in the future. May your heart be stronger and your life be smoother.
