I had a video with my mother at night, and it was my nephew and third brother who answered the phone. He said to me in a low voice, "Auntie, my sister is disobedient and grandma beat her up when she was angry." I asked the reason clearly and felt that I should be beaten. The thir

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I had a video with my mother at night, and it was my nephew and third brother who answered the phone. He said to me in a low voice,

My mother and I were videotaped by my nephew and the third one answered the phone. He said to me in a low voice, "Auntie, my sister is disobedient and grandma beat her up when she was angry."

I asked the reason clearly and felt that I should be beaten.

The third brother's sister is the fourth brother, who has just entered the first grade. But he is a mobile phone fan who can play with his mobile phone at home, and he can't stop playing?

My mother saw that the teacher assigned the homework for preview in the group, and asked the fourth brother if he had previewed?

As a result, she said without raising her head while playing with her phone, "The teacher didn't ask me to come back with the Chinese textbook."

My mother became very angry. While snatching her phone, she said she was disobedient.

As a result, when the child was fascinated by the phone, he yelled and even scolded her grandma when he was taken.

My mother was really angry now, so she picked it up and beat it.

Children now have their current performance, all because of their parents. Whether it is parents or the elderly, they always hold their mobile phones whenever they have time or don’t have time to take care of their children. I have reminded them more than once before that such a young child should not play with their cell phones, but I don’t listen. Except for the older nieces who have been six years old, who know something and take my words to heart and study hard, the others are mobile phone controls.

Adults say that children do not listen to discipline, but in fact, adults have great responsibility. Family education is the most direct and core education when children are young. You are having fun playing with your phone, how can you ask your child to study wholeheartedly? In the past, every time I called my mother to video, the scene I saw was basically the mother lying on the bed holding her cell phone, and five children were huddling in the bed to watch. I was both funny and helpless when I saw it. Several little heads stared at my phone with their eyes wide open, asking me to say anything quickly. I taught them that if they are so serious in their studies, they will not always hover on the passing line.

In the past, I often disciplined their studies, including playing with mobile phones. At first there was a little effect. Later, as they grew older, they became fascinated by mobile phones. In addition, their parents also liked to look at mobile phones, and their children were also influenced by adults. At that time, I was not married yet. I basically called home every day to ask about their studies. If I didn’t know how to do it, I would tutor them, and I also let their brothers and sisters supervise each other and not play with their mobile phones. If you are good, you will be rewarded; if you are not good, you will be punished.

My mother also said to me, their parents are not so strict in discipline, you are just an aunt so many things. I criticized my mother and said that you are really just responsible for taking care of your children and keeping them healthy and healthy. You don’t pay attention to the bad effects on your children. Many times the conflict between me and my mother will be caused by the discipline between children.

No matter how close a person is, he cannot withstand excessive straightforwardness. After being told this a few times by my mother, I felt heartbroken. My mother and their parents didn’t discipline such behavior very much. They only knew how to say a few words, but never set an example with actions. I feel that as their aunt I have disciplined too much, so I gradually stopped caring about so much. Sometimes when I see their academic performance mess, I will get angry. But there is no way. The child is not in a hurry to be responsible, and the person is not in a hurry. What can I do? Maybe it’s because of the deep love and the deep blame.

The boss has always been obedient. I often help her check her homework and teach her to write essays. I also like to buy books for her. I ask her to read more books when she has time, not to look at her phone, and occasionally watch TV when she is tired. She also wants me to teach her because she knows that I am for her own good. And she also knows that girls should study harder. Unlike the other children, every time I ask about their homework and exam results, I feel like I am facing a great enemy.

In fact, several children are very spiritual and have their own strengths in different aspects. But they all have one thing in common, that is, they are impatient and have no perseverance. Everything you do is a whim, but you spend a lot more time watching TV and playing with your mobile phone than studying.

Even now I am still a little worried about their study, after all, mobile phones take up most of their time. Such a young child actually has a mobile phone, which is the old mobile phone left by adults after they have changed into new ones. Their relatives are reluctant to beat and scold them, and they will give them whatever they want. These children are all in elementary school and can do basic housework, but my mother never asks them to do it. In the past, every child would assign housework to them as long as I was at home. They didn't let them do anything, how could they know that adults worked hard?

After I got married, I never wanted to interfere in the family affairs again. My mother still often complains to me that one doesn’t like to study, the one doesn’t like to eat, the one likes to hold her phone, and the one doesn’t want to sleep... I just listened and stopped caring because I knew it was useless.

When I went home, I didn’t like to live in the same room with my mom. Because she likes to put her phone on the head of the bed, go to the bathroom to check the time, and then play with her phone. The light in the middle of the night was particularly dazzling, so I couldn't stand going upstairs to go back to my room to sleep and hide for peace.

My mother often asks me why I don’t like to sleep in the same bed with her. I don't even bother to pay attention to her. And every time my mother plays with her phone, it’s very noisy, and I feel very disgusted. And every time I play until I am so sleepy that I only go to bed when the phone hits my face.

I told her again and again that sleeping like this is not good for the body, it will also affect the children's rest, and it will become a bad role model for children. My mother said she was used to it and couldn't change it. What else can I do?

Nowadays, children have the current bad habits. Don’t they learn from adults? I told my mom that their parents are not around, you are the direct guardian. They are still young and there is still time to train. If you and your dad are in junior high school, where can you and your dad still have the strength to control them?

I have also talked about this topic with my brother and sister-in-law, but they think. As long as your child grows up healthily, he can support himself with his own hands in the future. As for whether they have a promising future, how many books they read, and whether they have a good job, they don’t have much hope.

So, I seem to be worrying about it.

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