The child is not covered by his parents and dare not speak loudly.
When I saw such a signature, I felt inexplicably worried.
After reading the minds of many problematic boys.
I feel more and more that family education has a huge impact on a child.
are obviously all teenagers who come out of the same place.
Some are lively and cheerful, like the bright little sun.
Some are gloomy and silent, and they are escaping at any time.
Some people can't wait to rush home as soon as the holiday comes.
Some people are looking forward to the start of school every day during the holidays.
doesn't really like school life, it's just that life at home is too depressing.
Once read a passage written by a boy.
He said that his mother bought him new shoes that day.
The brand is a high-end product that students call.
When he saw the box, he was so happy.
Their family is not well off, and these shoes can be considered a large expense.
He knows his own situation well and has never spoken out for anything.
But at that age, how could you not envy the clothes of your peers?
He opened the shoe box ecstatically and wanted to try it on.
But at this time, my mother's words were like a basin of cold water, extinguishing all his joy.
Son, it’s not easy for your dad and I to make money.
Look at the shoes on our feet, I have been reluctant to buy a pair of new ones for several years.
You must be successful and never let us down.
We are poor families, you must study hard.
If you can't get into a good school, our family will be completely finished.
This pair of shoes was bought by us only because we saved money. Don’t let our expectations down.
The boy who was originally excited felt heavy in an instant.
There are brand-name shoes that I have longed for for a long time in my hand.
Looking at the shoes, he felt endless pressure in his heart.
Even the desire to get on the feet was exhausted in that moment.
Every time he is happy about something, his mother always says similar things.
I took the first few years of the grade. My mother said that I would get the first place in order to live up to their teachings.
If you want to go out for fun, he must reiterate that it is not easy to make money, so he can give him some pocket money.
said he was afraid that he would be proud, so he should always remind him to be sober.
Later, he got into college and left his hometown.
He did not take the initiative to ask for a living expenses. He would rather work part-time every day than listen to his mother repeating their suffering.
Every time he faces praise, he is always unable to be completely happy.
is always worried because I have been poured with cold water more often.
He is also unwilling to share his affairs with his parents.
Because no matter what he says, he will hear better people from his mother. The end of the topic of
is always a sentence, son, we will count on you in the future.
He dare not fall in love or make friends.
Because he not only carries his future, but also his parents must be able to overwhelm his expectations.
A girl who has cut her wrists has also written about her own experience.
She said she didn't like her parents and hated herself very much.
Her grades are average, so her parents have never liked her very much.
After having a younger brother, she was treated as nothing.
Once, she had a conflict with a classmate in her class.
It was clearly the other party who was looking for trouble, but she was not at fault.
But the teacher still called both parents to the school.
The one I went to that day was her mother. After hearing a few words in the door, she looked impatient.
She originally wanted to defend herself, but as soon as she opened her mouth, her mother slapped her in the face.
The slap was particularly loud, and the teachers in the office and the students outside the door listened sincerely.
She felt aggrieved and suddenly didn't know who to tell her.
The teacher and the other parent saw that she was beaten, so they persuaded her mother in turn.
But her mother pointed at her and scolded her, asking her to apologize quickly.
She couldn't help but shed tears.
Her mother sarcastically said that she had the face to cry.
Her adolescence has been very difficult.
Because her parents don’t like her, they always feel that she is too expensive.
She went out with her classmates to watch a movie and buy a cup of milk tea, and her mother felt it wasted.
Because of her poverty, she has no friends at school.
Several classmates who were reluctant to play with her were also called poor students who were not motivated by her mother.
requires her to keep a distance from her classmates and contact those classmates who have good grades.
After the college entrance examination, she had average grades and couldn't go to a good school.
Her mother thought it was expensive to study anywhere, so she chose the cheapest tuition.
During that holiday, relatives and friends around him couldn't help but ask where she was going.
Every time she asked, her mother complained impatiently.
said she was unpromising and always said how outstanding other people's children were.
She felt embarrassed and embarrassed, and stood up and ran away.
Hearing her mother shouting behind her back.
is not capable and loves to show off, and he will be like this just a few words.
After she became an adult, she rarely went home again.
would rather go to a classmate’s house to stay at home than step into the house during the holidays.
His parents didn't seem to care much about where she was going.
only contacted once a long time ago, and they hung up the phone awkwardly.
She never talks about her parents in front of others, just like her parents are ashamed to mention her.
She lived a very unhappy life and had no support.
When she was most helpless, she could only scratch herself with a blade.
so that several scars that cannot be healed on the arms are left.
She left me a message in the background, saying that one of my articles made her feel very warm.
She got nervous again that day and only calmed down when she saw that article.
I wrote long text to her, telling her that people should not be too emotional.
Even if you are alone, you must learn to keep warm by yourself.
She replied thank you and said she would live a good life.
I am at my age, but I never thought about getting married.
Because I have read too many cases over the years, I am also feeling the same in other people’s stories.
I know very well that I will not be qualified parents at the moment.
The teenagers will eventually grow up, some come out of the shadow, and some are always stuck in it.
What children who are not protected by their parents are best at being careful.
If you don’t really love children, don’t do this to complete the task.
Don’t treat children as your own sustenance. Too high expectations will overwhelm them.
And most importantly, people who are parents must learn to reflect.
Those parents who always feel that they are right cannot raise any excellent children.
Being a parent is a very simple thing, but it is extremely difficult to let a child grow up healthily.
I hope all children can feel the warmth of the family.
Only when you grow up in the environment of love can you have the confidence to talk to the world.
